Hey I have a question. men and women are welcome to comment?

[Anonymous]

So my boyfriend has a homegirl right…. Ok so he went out to this after party lastnight didn’t call or tell me where he was, I tracked his location that’s how I found out. He called around like 3 in the morning wanting to come in and sleep but I’m not going to lie I went through his phone and the homegirl textd and said “ I luv u fr but you be playing? “ he wrote her back and said call me tomorrow she was like ok I’ll call before I go to work. I asked him about it he was like that’s just his homegirl. So she wrote him on fb today and was like I textd u earlier to check on u he wrote back and said I was sleep and she said oh ok. Then he deleted the message. Do y’all think they have something going on

[Summeroflove]

Nothing wrong with having opposite sex friends. But if you have a bad feeling. Trust your gut. Do what you can legally to investigate whether or not he’s cheating or not.

Many times your gut is right. Now some people think too much into things and other people just assume everything is fine.

[Asker]

The only reason I’m questioning it is because he doesn’t call or text me when he’s out. Only when he wants to come home. Other than that I don’t hear from him at all. We don’t even spend time together anymore

[Summeroflove]

Asker. Yeah that’s weird. Even if he’s not cheating what kind of relationship is that? Be open and honest about how you feel and if you’re not happy. Then you’re probably better breaking up. Don’t waste your life on someone you’re not happy with. There is only three outcomes. 2 of them are what’s most likely.

One is you end up breaking up, two is you marry someone who doesn’t make you happy, three and least likely he changes and things become great. But that’s not a high chance

[Danny_dan92]

It sounds a little sketch. But you don’t have concrete evidence yet

[Asker]

What would u suggest? I’m love hearing men opinions as well

[Danny_dan92]

Just keep an eye on it.

[DerekC321]

I would say so.

[Asker]

Yea I do too. I’m just double checking…

[DerekC321]

Just the fact that he deleted that message, especially. I'm sorry. I can relate.

[Asker]

He says he does it because he knows I’ll think it’s something more than what it actually is

[DerekC321]

That's pretty cruel. It's like he wants to hurt you?

[Asker]

I would think so. He pretty much neglects me now. I don’t go anywhere with him anymore

[DerekC321]

I'm sorry. That's terrible. Can I follow/DM you?

[Asker]

Yes u can.

[DerekC321]

Thanks. Can you follow me (so I can DM you)?

[Asker]

Yes. I just followed u

[Anonymous]

All signs point to yes.

[Asker]

Thank u! I knew I wasn’t trippin