I’m a boy and I’m in highschool. Last year I had a class with this girl who shares a lot of friends with me but I didn’t rlly get the chance to talk to. come to this year she says to them that she thinks I hate her. I soon contacted her on snap because we have no classes this year. We had a playful conversation and she kinda just dropped the accusations. She did admit to me however that she was just kinda scared/nervous to talk to me despite being kinda popular. After that we had a few more 2-3 hour conversations scattered over the time period of 2 weeks. She was telling our mutual friends I was sweet and funny too. One night at about 2 Am our mutual adds me to a ft before promptly leaving and letting us to talk for an hour or so. She began snapping me more often. Then we finally met at a school football game. My friends greeted me with handshakes and she said “how wholesome.” She was even listening into a conversation I was having with my friend and responding before he could. After that, we had a few more deep conversations switching between my life and her life. Conversations were always super eventful and she always responded with complex answers, but usually I started them. I even made sure I wasn’t bothering her and she always said that she would rather be talking to me then doing her hw or whatever. She had my contact from a gc and I found out that she had my contact as a unique nickname. I had her contact too but I was afraid to just randomly start texting her so I asked for it over snap and she gladly gave it to me. We were having a good conversation before I made a spelling mistake, fixed it, and she stopped responding. I asked her about it and she said she didn’t see it, but still didn’t respond. After that we continued chatting on snap until she eventually stopped. I started texting her instead and she entertained the conversation as much as I did with reasonably timed responses and playfulness.
How can I tell if she’s somewhat interestedly? How do I determine if she isn’t just trying to be friendly?
