whenever I say that I pay sex workers to get my rocks off women in general always tell me things like...
""why do you pay for sex when you can just use tinder?"
Like wtf? what woman out there fucks for free? I highly doubt any woman out there is not gonna hop in bed with you without you at least taking her out for a dinner.
oh and please dont get me started with fucking tinder! I used that app 6 years ago like a loser for a couple of months and boy was that shit a joke. I would match with literally 100 to 120 women a month and 90% of them were mute and didn't even bother to start a conversation. the other 5% loved playing mind games and sounded like they wanted more than just sex and lastly the other 5% were single mothers from the hood. boy am I glad that I failed and did not score with any bimbo that used/uses that app.
of course it doesn't end there. whenever I explain any of the above they try to convince me otherwise such as telling me stories of their male friends and relatives using it and being succesful at it. one of them made me laugh as she used her cousin as an example, her causing; a guido pretty boy with blue eyes who spends the whole day at the gym, like how the fuck can someone right in their mind can expect me to have the same success as that person?
Nightclubs are another example. women swear that any loser that goes to a nightclub is bound to come out of there with a nympho who's gonna go home with him and fuck all night till sunrise. clearly this is never the case, talking from experience club rats are the worst type of women. they won't even give you a chance to dance with them unless you look like Brad Pitt or buy them the whole bar. hell some will even ghost you right after you buy them a drink.
till then I still wonder, why the fuck do women make themselves sound more easier than what they actually are?
do they hate being honest?
are they afraid to speak the truth?
do they think speaking the truth has repercussions?
Screw it. Plenty of men idolized by them are disappointed by the quality of what's available. You say "look like brad pitt" I mean brad is a girl on testosterone who married many obvious trannies and their alleged daughter is an admitted tranny. So called "chads" reject them and stay single by choice. I personally don't settle for less than perfect. Just have more purpose in life than chasing pleasures.
It's not always spring year round so why do people need to shake their pollen around 360 days a year? There are more important things to do than club, fuck and drink.
I even see it this way: while people haven't made partners yet, they should tell themselves to not be obsessed with it and squeeze as much time from this period of being single as they can toward doing something productive that they wouldn't have time for otherwise.