She rejected me but seems jealous?

[Anonymous]

So this girl rejected me and we talked for a long time. Not romantically just as friends. She was seemingly into her and really thought I had a good chance. The first time I asked her. She kind of put it off and said she was busy but never made plans to try another time.

The second time I asked her she said she wasn’t really looking for a relationship. But I asked her because she was seemingly still showing some interest and flirting a little. Such as touching me and stuff and sometimes complementing me. She don’t do that as much for other people.

The third time she said no again. So whatever. I figure she’s not into me and irs all in my head. She’s just a good friend. Even though her friend said she’s into me.

I eventually meet this other girl. She was a newer girl to my school and well. She was beautiful. She was sweet. She was funny. She was a very smart student had high grades and everything and was a cheer girl as well

We hit it off immediately. My friend would seem jealous of her. Barge into my conversations and try to take over or say we’re gonna be late to class.

The girl who rejected me eventually would be just giving her the side eye. She was flirting with me more and more.

I finally told her we were dating…. She just looked shocked and just stopped talking to me.

Katheryn by the way made the first move on me. She told me she liked me and I was like shocked because no girl has ever asked me out before. Most of the time I was the one doing it. We planned a date and things went really well. We were just not ready to tell anyone.

This girl who rejected me who was a nice girl before. Told the whole school we were dating and then told me she didn’t.

Her friend made me to be the bad guy and told me “how dare you do this to my friend I told you she liked you and she was wanting you to chase her and playing hard to get” and she got angry when I said I was not wasting my time with someone whose rejected me three times.

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By the way I did chase her. Most of the time if a girl rejected me once I moved on. I asked her out three times and flirted with her until I met Katie. Which was when I quit. Because her friend was even more angry when I said it was a waste of tkme. I thought she was gonna hit me. It’s not her relationship anyways. She’s just a flying monkey of the girl who rejected me.

When I said I am not going to play games or chase someone forever. Especially when I’m the only one putting effort in anymor

[nitsuj86]

Women lol. Just chalk it up to a bullet dodged, and enjoy your time with this new girl that actually likes you and didn't make you jump through a bunch of hoops.

I would have moved on after the first no. If she wants you, well... she is going to have to make that happen since she already turned you down 3 times. She had her chance. Now focus on the girl who gave you one. If you flip flop she will just turn you down again, or break up with you later when she is bored again.

I would just pretend not to care. If she gets mad at you, tell her you rejected me, and I moved on, simply. We can still be friends, but don't flirt anymore, just treat her like your guy friend that you don't want to fuck. If she gets mad, just repeat the process until you don't want to anymore or she gives up.

If other people say something, just tell them. She rejected me I moved on, simply. Don't get mad, just state it plainly. She will look like the crazy one, not you.

[Guy13]

She just wanted some attention and to see if she still controlled your interest in her. You fell into her trap.