Hi ladies is it a dealbreaker if a guy has a fear of something like if he is terrified of heights or scary movies
My boyfriend has fear of heights. And I'm a very adventurous person, I like the thrill I get when I look down from high up.
At the mall, even if it's just first floor, he's scared and walk to the side. When there's a very nice place I wanna take a picture with, and it's on the first floor which is not even far from the ground, he never ever takes a pic with me; no matter how I beg for that perfect pic. That was such a lovely place.
It was fine at first. I tried to understand his fear of heights and helped him overcome it. But no matter how much I try to help him. No matter how I say it's gonna be okay I'm here, he's really afraid of heights.
And I'm so done with that. I'm not taking him with me when I'm going somewhere nice when there's a possibility of a height difference from the ground.
For short, it's very FRUSTRATING
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No, everyone has a fear. If they say they haven't they're lying or haven't found out what it is yet.
I know one guy who's built like a tank but is terrified of wool.
What Girls Said
Think most people both men and women have at least one fear of some sort so having a fear is definitely not a dealbreaker. Only fear that would be a deal breaker for me relationship wise would be if he had a fear of commitment.
Fear of heights? I really want to try paragliding or skydiving. I don't know if that would be a deal breaker. As long as he can try to get over it. I would definitely support him and help him 😊
No of course not, he is human after all and everyone has their quirks.
Why would something as normal as having a fear be a dealbreaker?
Nah its kinda cute
That’s completely normal and human so no…
Nope.
I wouldn't mind.
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