I’m really pretty and kind but painfully shy and also have some depression. I put myself out there but feel like no one likes me. What should I do?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

I’ve been in this spot when I move to USA everyone made fun of me they called me r3t@rd girl. Because of my accent. I had poor English and told the gym teacher on the first day of school “I liking play soccer” instead of I would like to play soccer. It was hard for me everyone boys & girls nicked me as the “i liking play soccer r3t@rd girl” I was in my awkward stage. It wasn’t till later that boys wanted to flirt me and date me. You will find out a lot about people. I was very outgoing, then very shy cause everyone making fun of me. So It took a toll on me. Just don’t compromise who you are! Be the sweet kind caring good person you are 😊

[Jaylenn]

You most likely have social anxiety, I know girls who have it and an uncle who has it bad, it can be controlled with medication and/or therapy and it's not your fault.. See a medical professional.

[Asker]

I have a LOT of guys who express interest in me. But the voice in my head is like “they’d never like you.” It’s sad and probably a combination of trauma and perfectionism.

[AmyMasters]

It sounds like you have some past trama that has cause this. Have you always been this way? I was a classic people pleaser for a long time and would wonder why people would leave even though I would give them everything I had they would still leave. I had to stop caring and place boundaries. You also need to focus on self love and self worth you are worth so much more than you realize.

[Asker]

I guess I worry that I’ll never meet a guy willing to go extra miles and commit to me. I guess it’s frustration too since I worked so hard on myself for years with no results.

[AmyMasters]

I think it’s the type of guy you’re looking for maybe. I have also noticed that guys now a days are different and less social.

[Anonymous]

I don't have social anxiety. I just don't know what to say and then I blush and that's what makes me embarrassed. I hate blushing.