I don't look all that bad and many people (including guys) have said that I'm pretty, that I dress well, that my hair looks nice, etc. I'm one of the top students of my class and of the school in general, even the teachers had complimented me to other students because of how intelligent I am.
Most people would think that I look mean a lot of times, like I'm stuck up and like I would just walk away if somewhere were to talk to me, but a lot of people also know that I try my best to be nice and I go out of my way to help people and it's not just to put on a fake act.
So I don't understand why no guy has ever shown any kind of interest in me. I had never been asked out nor anything. What is wrong with me, then?
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i just answered a question asking the same thing... and it seems like every week I've got to answer questions like this from women who don't understand why this is happening. A lot of it has to do with the fact that a lot of feminist camps have been pushing this idea that any approach by men outside of like a bar/club/class is a form of street harassment and should not be done. Guys are way too afraid these days of approaching women in the way you want, because they're afraid of being seen as a creep, or getting in trouble. They may be attracted to you, but because of these fears that are largely externally manufactured... they choose to just look at you from afar which can also be seen as annoying/creepy.. but its safer oftentimes than going up to the girl. My guess is that there is nothing wrong with you. There are larger things at play that are out of your control2