Am I ugly if nobody like me?

[Anonymous]

I’m 26 and never been liked by anybody. I watch videos about how girls should do first move, but when I do, I feel so desperate and unwanted cause I often get ghosted. Am I so much ugly?😭 my studies will start at September and I wanted to have one person with whom I would just walk around city and have good time. But probably I’m too ugly and boring 💀
I actually can’t rate myself, I don’t feel ugly about myself but the way I get treated makes me feel that way. How to find partner?😭

[SteveSmith1985]

I was about to go to bed, and I saw this, and it made me sad.

I don't know what you look like, so I can't tell you how good-looking you are.

I can still tell you that no, you are not too ugly to find a partner.

It doesn't mean you can date every guy you end up liking. It definitely means that if you're looking for somebody to spend some time with, walk around the city and just have a good time... You are not too ugly to find a guy who would want to do that with you.

You'll find a boyfriend, no matter what you look like. If you're both most concerned with the connection you have and the type of person each of you is inside. Then even if you weren't attractive it wouldn't matter.

If I had to guess. I would bet you aren't ugly.

Do you know why?

" don’t feel ugly about myself but the way I get treated makes me feel that way. "

I talk to women on here all the time. I've been friends with dozens in real life over the years. VERY FEW women would say this about themselves. Almost none of them would say it when feeling sad and ugly and like they'll be alone forever (as many of us do feel from time to time).

So I read this, and was feeling so badly for you (and I do feel badly still).

But that part at the end... made me smile. No ugly girl has ever said that about their own looks. I'm pretty sure you're not ugly. There might be other reasons for the experiences that have led you to feel like others think you're ugly. It wouldn't be the first time someone's mistakenly come to that conclusion.

DM me anytime if you ever feel like a chat. I'm sure it's not as hopeless as you think.

I hope you feel better.

🙂

[Anonymous]

That’s hard to say w out you posting a pic.

[Smile456]

No, the people you're dealing with may just be jerks.

[moneymagnet24]

Yes may be you're ugly

[Asker]

😭😭😭

[moneymagnet24]

Aw don't cry lemme see how you look

[Anonymous]

Are you saying you never dated

[Anonymous]

Yeah , ugly and stinky 🤕 sorry 😔