Am I ugly if guys never look at me?

[Anonymous]

No guys make eye contact with me, it makes me feel like I'm ugly.

[SnowedIn]

You are NOT ugly, even if guys don't look at you. First, young guys are often too shy to look. And, a lot of the time they're looking and you don't see them looking. But they are.

You're not ugly.

[Asker]

But guys look at my sister all the time who's younger than me:/

[SnowedIn]

That sucks; I get it. And have no plate of guys to offer as proof, but I know that some are looking, really.

[Asker]

I hope so, the last time a guy looked at me I was 14. It's a year ago.

[SnowedIn]

:) They are looking. And shy. And clueless. None of which helps you but my point is that it's not because you're ugly.

[burlen]

No, absolutely not! Your worth and value as a person are not determined by the attention or validation you receive from others.

Attraction is subjective and can vary from person to person, and just because you may not have caught the eye of certain individuals does not mean that you are any less beautiful or worthy of love and respect.

Remember, true beauty comes from within, and focusing on your own self-confidence and self-love is the most important thing.

[ilikesnow]

ofc not!! everyone is beautiful in their own way, u shouldn’t try to use how much guys stare at you to determine if you’re pretty or not.

[cherry_pankhuri]

No, i don't think so. Be confident and try to improve your looks more to get attention from guys!

[Horse-girl]

Don't say you're ugly, of course you're not! Generally people don't make eye contact because they're shy, for example I find it hard to make eye contact with guys I find attractive whereas I can quite easily make it with someone I don't. Besides you're young and probably they don't know how to interact with girls yet so the easiest thing is to avoid any eye contact. Please believe in yourself, confidence is attractive in itself. 😊

[Guy13]

We are not born perfect and ready to go... Give yourself time to fully develop.

[Anonymous]

It may be hard but try not to base your perception of yourself on male validation, if they don’t like you that doesn’t make you ugly and even if they did like you that isn’t what makes you beautiful

[KostasKouvalis]

Hard to know without a picture. Could also be you're so hot, they're scared to look at you because they feel unworthy

[Anonymous]

You can accept anything you want. Why would you accept the idea you're ugly?

[Anonymous]

No, it just means you're emotionally unavailable.

[Asker]

What do you mean?

[Anonymous]

That because of your age! You will grow up someday and you’ll got it!

[Asker]

Or am I just ugly? Why would guys ignore me? Even guys my age or EVEN YOUNGER than me?

[Opinion Owner]

I don’t believe that you’re ugly… you are so young to me! 🙂

[jacobsontom]

I don’t see a picture of you to say this

[Asker]

But if you don't look at a girl, why is that?

[jacobsontom]

If I had a passionate love I wouldn't look for another girl

[Asker]

That's the only reason?

[chilldude33]

They're just shy

[Asker]

How come they stare at my sister then?

[Stevefiveo]

Guys that age aren't very mature.