I’m pretty but no guys ever look at me. What should I do?

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I know I’m pretty but I get 0 attention from guys even online. I’m very happy and approachable in real life and I’m never in a huge group. One guy dmed me the other day and I complexly messed it up now I’m back at nothing. What should I do?

smne35 · Accepted Answer

Well you let me see your photo and I'll be the judge of how pretty you are and then tell you honestly what's what. But you know what you should do. See how that you're in this frame of mind back away. Calm down and approach it differently but with a purpose and the main thing you should always do is always remain calm. Never get too excited and it's good that you see yourself as being pretty. It's supposed to always feel good about yourself because when you do others see it too. But keep your composure always going. Overreact don't say too much, just remain calm at all times no matter what. Cuz when you lose your composure in your calmness you stop thinking and you always want to be in control of you so you can try that and see how it goes. No come off. It's too eager either. Get the other person sweat lol

Socaljp · Accepted Answer

Be sure to dress sexy like show some boobs and butt and guys will look at the offerings on display. Once you get the looks from a guy you think looks good then just do some flirting and see what happens. You may have to approach a guy eventually to initiate since not all guys have ability to initiate themselves. But if you notice a guy looking several times it means he wants it usually. Brush up on some social skills if needed and just get out there and make it happen. May have to go through several tries before you cash in but it will happen. Sexy to me is when a woman wears tight little shorts and shows a little of that butt and more than a little of them boobs. That would for sure get the boys looking. Once you get them looking then get your flirt on is all.

Altheavas · Accepted Answer

You sounds like a troll, hungry for attention. Have you ever check onlyfans, if you’re naked you’ll get all the attentions you want.

chrissykerdock · Accepted Answer

wear shortskirts and dresses that should do the trick

HawkPerception · Answer

Either guys are too afraid to appeachnyou because you're too attractive and they think you're out of their league or you're not as attractive as you think. Not trying to assume, but the more likely answer is the latter. Because attractive people will always have attention and people trying to hit on them. Wouldn't be able to tell you without a picture

Flatmanlewis · Answer

I think there is some data missing in this question. But, having said that, you need to be at places and in a setting where a man will even try to approach you. Walking through a mall is not the best environment for that. Also, being pretty is very subjective and therefore - while pretty, many men may be looking for their specific type.

DarkWinterNights · Answer

A lot of guys aren’t really approaching women in person these days. Internet has screwed that up in multiple ways. Online is hit or miss. Most of the single guys I know aren’t really actively looking for dates or relationships. So it may not be you specifically. But how do you know you’re approachable? How did you mess up with the guy that DM’d you?

VikingWarLord · Answer

you must be an American chic, I approached a chic at the Mall about a year ago on the escalator, she wasn't a model but a bit over average a 6 out of 10 (skinny, decent face, nice t! ts, etc..). She said she's never had a guy just randomly hit her up when she's goin through the mall. We hooked up many times after that until I moved. I've noticed dudes aren't really aggressive in gettin chics in public in America

TheorionMage · Answer

CLEARLY, you're marketing your approach-ability to the wrong audience and medium. There is NO first contact, without the risk of 'rejection' for MANY reasons, not ALL YOUR'S.

Joshydavid25 · Answer

I mean you say you're pretty, but really that's for other people to decide.. Which is the whole point.. To attract a mate.. I mean if you are these things as you say, then you should be getting attention no problem..

spartan55 · Answer

Pro tip:  always let others call you pretty. You should never point out how great, pretty, rich, athletic, etc you are.

MrCommodore · Answer

Sounds a bit strange, are you leaving out any key information?

Surely · Answer

What do you have to offer? Fun loving personality? Happy go lucky? Common sense? No tattoos? All of your teeth? Big or little boobs? Nice butt? Long legs. Tall or short? Bathe regularly?

exitseven · Answer

I do not know what's going on with you. There should be guys lined up down the street wanting to date you. Is your father a cop or a mob boss?

bededazzle · Answer

just be the person you want to be and don’t worry about it

Starrrboy · Answer

A pretty girl who gets zero attention from guys? that's odd for sure... are you really socially awkward? but even with that you should still get some action..

DextroShade · Answer

Either you aren't pretty or you are this girl:

Avicenna · Answer

Flirt with guys you like (preferably in real life)

stratford · Answer

Feel free to DM me, I'm happy to chat and if we click, you'll have me bugging you to chat every day :-)

Staximus · Answer

Nevermind "dm's" , social media bullshit, and don't meet up with random guys from online

Anonymous · Answer

Because being pretty is not enough, everyone is pretty when they are young, so don't expect men to notice you just because you are pretty.

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

Just be yourself it will happen but just out of curiosity what do you look like

Kingofkings1992 · Answer

You know this is not how real life works. Shut up 🤐

Anonymous · Answer

You’ll be fine trust me. Not many people are alone, there’s always someone for you.  Most of the girls who have chased me in my life I’ve ignored, most not all

Jmmmfi4 · Answer

I THINK GUYS ARE AFRAID TO APPROACH GIRLS IN GENERAL. I KNOW I AM.

Wise4myage · Answer

Be more bold, and dress to impress!

Fuentes · Answer

Yeah we all beleive you

Heolurt · Answer

Gain a personality, a good one.

rexabon · Answer

pretty girls are scum, that's why.

Cheerfull009 · Answer

You follow me and come on message, we can chat

Anonymous · Answer

Can I see if you really are pretty?

Wood3nWhal3 · Answer

Get prettier?

jackiechanfan · Answer

UNLUCKY!

Anonymous · Answer

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