People say im pretty.. I get my hair done, put on a bit of makeup. Nothing dramatic. And tbh, i think i look nice. I dress alright and people compliment me on my hair and everything. But no guy ever talks to me.. There was this one guy who would look at me a lot act all weird around me and told my friend that i was pretty when she asked why he looked at me & his friend told me that he might've liked me and told him i was cute but he never really approached me either. Only once and it it was in a awkward way. But yeah, no guys really talk to me.. Im not slim but not too fat but been told that i was "thick" i have a Somewhat nice shape.. Im kind of shy, im chill and cool and talk to a few people.. What can i do to be approachable? I want a boyfriend.. I talk to a guy on my Facebook but i dont think we'll ever be together.
Most Helpful Guy
I hate the word "shy" as if it's not controllable or a disease. I find shy people simply "boring" and I think most people see it the same way but don't have the balls to say it... so I will do it... I am not shy! LOL When someone saids they are shy... a lot of people think to themselves (and obviously don't share it with you the shy person) .. Oh they must be boring and don't lead an exciting life so why bother. So my advice.. stop being shy... You really don't have to be... That's my prescription.0
Most Helpful Girl
They only think you can do to be approachable is BEING YOU.
There is no magic that can change the way people think of you or clothes that you should wear to get their attention or make them be your boyfriend.
I think you should worry less about what people (GUYS) think because looks are not everything.
If you do meet a person what type of conversations do you have to entertain? What have you been experiencing that is so in-vulgar and interesting? What do you have to offer that only YOU can offer?
Is your plan being like everyone else? Dressing like everyone else and action like everyone else? That's nothing new anyone can copy.
You need to Be authentic.
I cannot tell you how to act or how to behave in order for you to find LOVE.
All I can tell you is: LET LOVE FIND YOU.
Be confident in your skin and body, whatever you do, Do it for yourself and eventually someone will fall for you.
Improvements: Find out what you think you might be doing wrong or that is less approachable that you can correct. Try with the dating apps just to practice dating, just like a test that would be fun!
In this opinion I have no intentions of being rude in anyway. I was also never the type of girl that had guys running behind me and I know how it feels and the improvements I've made were worth it (still improving lol) , I am married and happy and it feels awesome having a boyfriend (finally) :D I though I would die alone at some point LOL