I really like this this girl. Everytime I see her I get really bad butterflies in my stomach. Plus I feel very flushed everytime I see her. Just for some reason she seems to be a little nervous or something like that towards me. She seems quieter with me and only me compared to others. Then suddenly out of nowhere after she behaves like I'm not there, she comes up and stands near me and starts small talk with me. Does she hate me or something?
I’ve definitely “shut down” around guys I've liked. Part of that is due to being more introverted and not wanting to come across as weird or obvious about my feelings. And before anyone asks, no it never worked lol. But I still try to make an effort to at least talk to a guy. So there’s that…
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No girls will be always around you if they like you they will find a reason or excuse just to be near you. Almost like they are always there.
If she is really really shy and doesn’t understand just quite how she feels then possibly would avoid you to not come off as interested
but most times if she’s avoiding or not around you is because she doesn’t care for you
The wishy-washy effeminate worry wart 💩 bugs me to death. Take control of the situation with some gentle assertiveness. Most of these types are dying to be led by a decent looking, professionally developed, and Vision thinking guy…
If she hated you she wouldn’t put any effort into making conversation with you.
It’s a 50/50 chance of either she likes you as a friend or she has a crush.
Invite her to hang out with you if you’d like to find out the gentle way.
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Of course they do. All you can do is be friendly and hope she is receptive.
I might avoid guys I'm attracted to or guys significantly higher than me in status or intelligence but if I'm not intimidated and feel welcomed by him, and don't doubt his honesty, I won't be intimidated by him.
I try to avoid men I like because I don’t want them to be angry when they find out I do like them. I’ve had that happened and I got bullied. Lesson learned.
I avoid a guy I like if I am too busy with something else. Usually it would have to be something serious.
they'll definitely avoid guys they don't like
I don’t really avoid him but I also don’t really seek him out
Every women is different. Some would avoid you because they like you and don't know how to react around you while some would just say it out clear that they like you
She either feels your vibe and is put off by it or she is very anxious and insecure. There's one way to find out though.
I try to find ways to be around them without looking too obvious.
Just because I like a guy, doesn’t mean I’ll pursue him.
I only avoid men I like lol
Nope, they have sex with them.
It's totally possible.
Sometimes yes sometimes no
you won't know till you find out by asking her out
Yeah she's using you.
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