Why do I have a weird feeling about my friend?

[roryglimore]

I used to have a friend let's call her Eva, she was my best friend and she still is. She's so kind to me, an extroverted one. But then I started to prefer my classmate lily more than her (lily was way too kind to me) so I BEGGED the teachers this year to let me transfer to her class, hopefully they agreed. But lily started showing her bad sides to me, I figured out last week that she talks shit about me with her Mexican friend and basically she told her EVERYTHING I told her once. Now her Mexican friend hates me for some reason and I tried to ignore them. But Lily hates Eva so I try to not make them meet but at the same time I love them both. However Lily is nice sometimes but sometimes I get bored and I don't know why. I know too much drama but like what would you suggest in this case?

[KittyKat90210]

It sounds like Eva is a better friend to you than Lilly. A friend who cares about you would be supportive of you and wouldn't talk about you behind your back. Confronting Lilly about it would probably just lead to her making more nasty comments with her friend. If it were me I would back off from Lilly and try to keep a strong bond with Eva.

[Changiis07]

Sounds like you need to be careful with Lilly because by this time I would not be her friend anymore if I know it was her talking stuff about me. I would first ask her in person to see what she has to say before I jump to any conclusions

[roryglimore]

That's a great idea I need to try this, thanks for the advice

[loveslongnails]

I suggest in the future that you don't show "preference" to one friend over the other. They're either your friend, or they're not. More importantly, you should learn this very important lesson: " Loose lips sink ships". Be careful who you trust.

[Amy10223]

I suggest you leave Lilly alone and stay with your friend Eva, who seems more loyal to you. Never trust a gossip.

[Paul09]

You are a strange kid. Almost like you live a negative person over a good person. How can you even call Lily a friend? Do you love drama I. Your life or something. Lily is useless, not a friend. Must be using you or something.

[roryglimore]

The problem is that my mom likes her and she supports me in my class, maybe next year I wouldn't be in her class but rn I need her for help im studies. she's helpful and when I'm absent at skl for example and she sends me all the things she took. I'll keep her for this year. She thinks of me as a naive girl and told her friends that I lack some self confidence so they would 'help me'.

[Changiis07]

You're a bit rude with your words calling her a strange kid, I mean she did come on here to ask for advice and she's still young

[Paul09]

So they insult you , and then want to help you? Friends like Eva are the best kind. People like Lily are the worst kind. Hope you don't stay her "friend". You can trust one , but not the other.

[Paul09]

@Changiis07 Not rude at all. Never thought strange as a insult lol. Plus it is a fact , if she stays with this Lillie person.

[roryglimore]

Thanku for the suggestions, I'll see how I can talk to Lily and comfort her

[Anonymous]

maybe you’re the problem ✋🏽

[roryglimore]

Explain please