What does it mean if a girl says something was boring without me?

[Anonymous]

Once i didn't show up to an activity with some friends/acquaintances, one of them being a girl i liked, she may have liked me too. But the one day i didn't show up to said activity, she said "it was boring" to me afterwards. What does this indicate?

[DaveJord]

Did she say it was boring in general, or boring with out you there?

Big difference in those two statements, so don't read into it too much in to it, focus on exactly what she said.

She might of just been trying to make you feel better for missing it by saying it way boring in general.

Or she might like you. I would not focus so much on the meaning of this. But if you like her, I would just ask her out on a date.

[Sparkie460]

She likes being with you. Things are more enjoyable for her when you are around

[Sparkie460]

Thanks for the mho

[jvnxs]

It seems like she likes you. If you like her, try to spend more time with her. If you don't that's alright. You can do as you please.

[CrazyGirl2]

I would assume that she likes you, as she appears to be saying that she has a better time with you there than without you there.

[FilmGuy93]

I'll give you a hint; it has nothing to do with the activity in question.

[sawno]

Probably likes it because she gets to spend time with you rather than the activity itself. Can be an indicator but at the same time it can also just have been boring that day. definitely see if she is responsive to taking things further, but gently. This wasn't a goahead on its own to me.

[Msputiton]

This is code for we are trying to brush our teeth, but ran out of toothpaste, and hope you will buy us some. 😭

I really hope you bought her some toothpaste

[Dav1dTh0ma389]

In bizarro world maybe

[OlderAndWiser]

Did she say "it was boring," or dd she say it was boring without you?" Two different messages.

[slatyb]

That's a blatant hint that she wants to spend more time with you. If you are attracted, ask her out.

[kellytheman]

She wanna to see you there and she might do some of those activities cause you are there. She probably wouldn't go if you didn't go to a activity. She also might think you make the activities fun for everyone but she must really like you.

[midnightmoon05]

Ask her, “ what do you mean”.
let us know after.
I’m now curious!

[SnowedIn]

She enjoys your company and you make that activity enjoyable for her.

[Guy13]

That girl missed you snd has a crush on you.

[AngryCarl2]

Reading the small print, she just said it was a boring activity. Not that it was boring because you weren't there. Did you just hear what you wanted to hear?

[MountAverage]

Why don't you just say "hey, can you please confirm that this means she's into me"? We all know that's what you wanna hear. But I'm not gonna give that to you.

[talka20]

She didn't enjoy cuz of not having your company there probably

[Gibbons44]

Genuinely enjoys your company/way of thinking and being 👍

[aaron210419]

There's no telling these days, don't assume anything

[FitMom]

She probably hinting that she wants you to be there

[PatriceONeal]

Nothing. Don't listen to what they say we aren't here to "entertain them". It's super narcissist.

[Paul09]

Maybe other people are actually boring, and your not. And \or maybe she has a little crush for you. But impossible to tell

[boobliker]

I would say she likes you around to make things more fun

[LegendaryDater]

It means you might be the glue that holds the activity with people together.

[Anonymous]

That things would have been more fun with you