Why is my mum so negative about me?

[Anonymous]

My mum only says negative things about me. I don’t know if I’m being too sensitive? I had someone tell me I’m a kind person, and I told my mum, she said “you’re not kind, you’re just a pushover.” Her boyfriend also said I’m not kind just “fake and polite.” They both then said I’m “not a strong person, just stubborn and obstinate.” I told her I got scouted to be a model and she goes “you don’t look like a model at all!” Like why is she always so negative? Everyone else is nice to me but my mum is so critical and her boyfriend always echoes whatever she says. Also, if I tell my mum she is just as stubborn as I am, she gets so offended and in a bad mood.

[Anonymous]

Many things. She could be resentful, envious. Has the lack of emotional capacity to love you the way you need and deserve. Just because you have a vagina doesn't mean you should give birth.

She doesn't care enough to break generational curses. It's obvious that I see your mom treated you exactly how she was treated growing up.

I hope you really really learn to love yourself cause at the end of the day you're all you have.

Learn to be free without her. I'm on my journey of being free. I wouldn't want it no other way

[In_Trance]

you'd have to ask your Mom this