My sister talks a lot of negative things about me to my mom?

[Anonymous]

when im getting into a new relationship thats serious, my sister starts talking negative things about me towards my mom. they both start talking really negative things espeacially if im around them and i can hear them speaking about me. i naturally feel really insulted.

iv had struggles in my past relationships and i couldnt talk to my family cause of there judgment. so basically i keep to myself and try to face my struggles in my relationships by myself.

so now im getting into a new relationship and im hoping it will give me a light in myfuture and enhance my happyness. but when my sister knows im struggling, she comes off with insulting behavior and starts to fill my moms head up with non-confident and negative thoughts about me.

its so hard to have a relationship and have my famly involved aswell, espeacially when he comes to meet up with my family at times, it gets kinda awkward.

my family always thinks its me who is at fault with my relationships and my sister makes the whole story of me being the bad one as a totally one sided thing.

iv had two failed relationship in the past. but both were very serious and long term.

[Anonymous]

It’s understandable that you may feel hurt and frustrated by your sister's behavior towards you, especially when it comes to your relationships. It's important to communicate openly and honestly with your sister and your mother about how their behavior is impacting you, and to set clear boundaries and expectations for your relationships with them.

It's possible that your sister may have her own issues or insecurities that are driving her negative behavior towards you, and it may be helpful to approach the situation with empathy and understanding. However, it's important to stand up for yourself and to assert your own needs and boundaries in the relationship.

If you are struggling in your relationships, it may be helpful to seek support from trusted friends, family members, or professionals, and to prioritize your own well-being and happiness. Remember, you deserve to be in healthy and fulfilling relationships, and it's important to communicate openly and respectfully with others as you navigate your relationships and your own personal growth.

[Wise4myage]

She is very jealous of you and she's also toxic.