Why does my friend always talk shit about me to her mom?

It’s so crazy because me and this friend used to be so close but now all we do is fight. I’m always down to talk about but instead of talking to me she tells her mom how annoying and horrible I am. I admit I can be forgetful and not always self aware at times but I am trying to be better and she just holds my mistakes over my head. For example we now live 3 hours away from each other and I’m very directionally challenged at Times. I also got off work late. So she expected me to be there around 6 or 7 I got there at 9pm because I almost got hit and then I got all Razzled and missed my exit on the highway and ended up too far away I texted her and told her and she basically started yelling at me calling me stupid and all of this didn’t ask if I was ok or anything. She always blames everything on boundaries. Like for another example is I had to go to my car and get my things and I noticed a spider on me so I screamed and yes it’s at night and I did it by accident I’m just terrified of spiders and she said that I am ridiculous and horrible for that and I should of known better. Like I just feel like she thinks I do these things on purpose but I don’t.

Why does my friend always talk shit about me to her mom?
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