She had me at an extremely young age, all we had was each other. I've missed out on my childhood and teen years being a second mother, and I've sacrificed a lot.
Unfortunately that meant nothing bc when she's in a good mood she tolerates me and talks crap about me behind my back. "She's so lazy", "She's useless", "She's always sitting on her ass", "She can never do shit right", "What did I give birth to, she's not any child of mine", "Oh look she's on a diet now she thinks she is better than us" etc. I hear when she thinks I'm gone. When she's pissed off she tells me to my face and puts me down.
She also tells other family members my personal business and secrets that I've told her in private. Once my family members mention whatever she's told them about me at family get togethers I feel humiliated.
I honestly don't know why she does it. I would never ever do it to her, she's my mom!
The last time she hurt my feelings was 2 days before Christmas I had spent most of my check on the bills and gifts for her and my siblings and while we were shopping for gifts last minute. I saw that she had a lot of gifts picked out for everyone. I said (jokingly) "dang do I have a gift in there somewhere". She snapped at me and said, "I'm getting gifts for the family members who actually matter".
:( what should I do?
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