I'm no dummy.
I stepped out the car to go meet my man. Then she pulls up by the side after they've been talking and sqating all day..
She sees me and yells out his name and says she will text him later about work or what not.
๐ I know a sneaky bitch when I see one. I trust my man but not these other hoes
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If your man is trustworthy, then she's just trying to dig at you... and hopefully get you two to fight about it. That's going to be when she lays it on thick.
It's exactly the same as a chick that has a boyfriend/husband who lets horny beta male orbiters circle her like vultures.
What confuses me, is your man training with a female. If it's about learning, youtube will give you all the instruction you need. Plus your man can probably sense what you're sensing just like a boyfriend/husband always senses that other dude around his chick is not just a friend or just a nice guy. I'm going to say just like a chick does... he's doing that shit on purpose instead of backing out of the situation. Maybe likes the attention... feels some tingles and butterflies from it. Eventually she will be a problem.
Damn. Well she's a trainer from his job. I put a stop to them texting at 8pm. Because it's weird and she will feel it's okay to text whenever.
I see the way she smiles at him and she did shit on purpose. He tells me I have noth iij ng to worry about. he's trust worthy but females are convincing and are tempting. I will cut the both of them lol
What's crazy too is he needed training in the van. It's just a mini van. Nothing extravagant. So I questioned that. and she was helping him on how to work the work app.
He did say he can do some stuff on youtube you're right or download an app I said he can stay and get training. Boy was it weird af when she dropped him off. He didn't want me to pick him up and what's weird he said hed be home in 10 minutes and came home in 30
I went through their texts its strictly work. But I don't know THAT was fucking weird
I think you have a chick trying to steal your dude. Trust your gut and don't get gaslighted by him... or her. Like, when a chick tries to tell me "he's just a friend/really nice guy," you already know it's a fucking lie. My problem is feeling like I have to prove it, when really if it's just obvious, it's obvious.
I'd suggest laying it out in front of your dude and simply saying to knock that shit off. You know what she's up to and that's that.
I mean seriously... the texting shit is enough evidence. Also be aware that your dude probably would like to boink her, otherwise (think I said this before), he would've done backed off from the situation because he sees it too.
I usually already see it for what it is. And how bitches are. I laid it on him last night.
Let him know if I ever suspect anything just know imma do my own thing.
I asked him you like the attention dont you. And it was almost like he was giving excuses for her. "Well how you know she doesn't have a dude already" "she has 3 kids she obviously has a baby dad aka a man" he said something like "just say you dont want me to have a 2nd job" and in no way shape or form am i trying to stop his income but i let it be known he sees when a female is trifling and thirsty at the end of the day and she trying to get a rise out of it. Also him saying shit like oh well you worried about another bitch. Well duh I know a lot of females and guys too want what they can't have and a lot of people for some reason want to take things I own. Just know if I sense anything I'm out and you already know where I'm moving to.
I don't know!! Things are already ify for me but he has been loyal so far and very honest. But bitches are tempting it doesn't make a right but I already know
The whole thing with getting trained he wanted to finish up by using her computer. I let him cause I won't stop his money as we have a baby on the way too so maybe he's trying the best for his family...
I was basically letting him know and trying to get the word to him I'll fuck somebody else lol try me. And not tell you about it.
He said down the line how he trusts me and knows and feels like I wouldn't do him dirty like that... and that's how I feel. But I dont trust it if I feel you playing with my emotions. I feel he could be resentful or jealous as many men have approached me before and tried getting with me while with him. But I only tell him about the men that make me feel uncomfortable
My man is going to propose soon... I can't go out like this lol
If they spend all day training together, they're probably at least friends.
Work harder to keep your man's interest.