As a white American male, is it normal that I felt a sense of culture shock? Why can’t American women be like this? Where the hell did we go wrong?

[WhiteBoyChill]

I don’t know what it is with American culture and where we went wrong but the girls in this video can literally be heard saying “we don’t need feminism”.

But perhaps the most surprising thing was when she asked the girls if they wanted to marry and have kids.

Ask most white girls in America about either of these things and the answer would be a hard “fck no”.

I mean they’re so collectively unintelligent I’ve been called a misogynist just for wanting kids because it creates this “unwanted burden” on women.

Yet these other girls in the video be saying they want 3-4. And add slicing to the cake they couldn’t give a shit about being “boss babes” and proving themselves to the whole world.

Not to mention they actually dress well. You know, like American women used to in the 1940’s.

So what the hell gives?

Like why can’t American women just be more like they were in the 1940’s and there’d be no problem?

Why’s it gotta be all twerking my ass and posting on social media?

They act all surprised how more and more guys are just deciding we’re done with dating and how we’re looking overseas. I mean seriously. It really pisses me off that I even have to consider the possibility.

It’s such an inconvenience to have to tell myself I’ll have to fcking wait several years until I have the money to travel, just to find a girl tolerable enough I could actually spend an hour with.

But that’s just life I guess 🤷‍♂️.

I mean I sure as hell ain’t upset I haven’t dated a single American girl in the past year because that was all consciously done by choice.

I haven’t asked a single girl out since I was naïve enough to five years ago.

And that was before I understood the nature of American women.

So yeah, all the women in the comments can call me an incel all you want.

It’s not like I’m at this great loss or anything.

[inhua]

you don't need to go overseas for a culture shock

just walking through your local Chinatown is enough to get a culture shock

compare that to most college campuses and it's literally day and night with weekly protests on shit nobody really cares about, not even the protesters themselves care about their cause, it's just virtue signaling and fake outrage

western culture has degenerated into bad morals, bad manners and getting offended over every single tiny detail. at least protests in the east are actually legitimate like the Tiananmen Square protest that unfortunately ended up with dead students mowed down by the military

the moment tanks start strolling into women's marches, pride marches, climate change extinction rebellion etc. is when the mob gives up on their cause and run away like a bunch of cowards

at the end of the day, the women who twerk their ass on social media are telling you not to introduce them to your parents or grandparents. they're doing you a favor

[CALIGVLA]

(Western or Westernized) White women are a hopeless case. Period. Grin and bear it. They're just not mentally fit for a serious relationship, since their mindset is incompatible with anything serious.

Not relationship material.

You can (still) find foreign girls or good hearted non-white girls in the US. But if you wanna get a girl abroad, start learning a 2nd language. Spanish is a good one. Or Portuguese. Or another specific language of a country you wanna settle in. Don't worry, pretty much all women across the world make better girlfriends/wives than Western white women.

[WhiteBoyChill]

Ya but at the same time tho I kinda worry if I settle down someplace else I might have too many girls interested and not know what to do

[CALIGVLA]

It's way better than having to pick one white girl from the whole bunch of slutty white girls who always come with negativity, unsolved issues from previous relationships and a shitty personality.

[WhiteBoyChill]

Yah that’s true. But it comes with its challenges tho. I’m not sure if the wages would be any good in Asia

[CALIGVLA]

It would be a bit hard for you to live in Asian due to the religion and language barriers.

You can totally rock it in the Philippines since their official language (Tagalog) is a bit similar to Spanish. In addition to it, English is their 2nd one.

Indonesian is also easy to learn and the country's economy is booming, so there's plenty of job opportunities out there. For you to have an idea, Indonesia is set to become the 4th biggest economy in the world. But they're Muslim so it might be a problem for you.

You will have less "language shock" in Latin America and Africa.

[CALIGVLA]

*would be a bit hard for you to live in Asian due to the religion and language barriers.

You can totally rock it in the Philippines since their official language (Tagalog) is a bit similar to Spanish. In addition to it, English is their 2nd one.

Indonesian is also easy to learn and the country's economy is booming, so there's plenty of job opportunities out there. For you to have an idea, Indonesia is set to become the 4th biggest economy in the world in the next 25 years.

If you like nature and beaches, Indonesia and the Philippines rock it.

I have 2 friends who are living in Indonesia for work and they're doing pretty well in life. They married local women by the way.

[WhiteBoyChill]

What do people typically do for work there? Do they have Land Surveyors as a Profession?

[CALIGVLA]

Every place in the world has this profession, it's very useful but I can't say if their job market (specific for your profession) is already saturated or not. They're probably not, though. Booming economies usually have great prospects.

But to be honest with you, I think you'd feel more at home in Latin America.

[WhiteBoyChill]

Yeah man I was thinking the same thing. I really have my reservations about the Philippines at the moment. Their wages and weather don’t appear to be that good.

However I don’t speak Spanish, so I would have to learn that of course. But perhaps maybe I could live in Puerto Rico for some time and get exposure that way?

I’ve heard the island is bilingual

[Anonymous]

Ok so I don't want a woman from the 1940s, but I experienced this culture shock a few years back when I visited Thailand.

They instill strong family values in their kids over there. Girls primarily work so that boys can get educated. The logic being that the boy will grow up to get a good job and raise a family. And the girl will marry a man with a good job and raise a family. That just works as a model.

Not to mention they look after their parents as they get older. Families stick together. This means childcare costs are basically nonexistent, and care homes for the elderly are also nonexistent. It's a complete different way of life and I honestly respect it a lot.

[lightbulb27]

key words:

Traditional:

Parents:

Most of such women would like to marry and get out to a better place.

Some filipino's not so lucky to have parents, parents that can support them and... they suffer. luck of the draw.

go find yourself a traditional woman.

that said, lots of American women want husband/mates and they have hard time as well. but yes, something went wrong in USA... what it is, is another discussion.

[WhiteBoyChill]

I suppose you could be right its just I’m speaking for what are a majority of women my age.

[slatyb]

They were educated, and they chose differently, just like women in every other developed country.

[WhiteBoyChill]

Tf do you mean? Did you miss the part about all those girls being in college?

[Exterminatore]

Yeah it’s normal. I feel it too. They don’t feel it because their one of the main groups driving the culture you and I are shocked by.

[Anonymous]

Liberalism and indoctrination of the education system

[Petr87]

Isn't the answer to your "problem" staring you in the face? Move to the Philippines if that's what you really believe about American women.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

It's just you and in your own little bubble that doesn't see reality on the gran scale.

[WhiteBoyChill]

Lmfao. Says the guy who thinks all women are fundamentally the same regardless of country or culture

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

You are the silly dude that thinks culture changes someone's heart and personality.

The Bible teaches a wicked woman is a wicked woman regardless of culture and country.

Besides, you are posting a video with a chick with probably her cousins as this was all staged from the clothing to the topic to get YouTube views and subscribers for revenue and you actually fall for it. LOL like the rest of the idiots that watched it.

[WhiteBoyChill]

Because it does. You’d be foolish to believe American women aren’t the most intolerable and narcissist women in the world.

And those girls don’t look like genetic cousins if you ask me.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

It's just you and your bubble. Go outside and see people.

[midnightmoon05]

I work with 99% women. I feel
like a trader by saying this…I run from them even if just to be their “friend” no thanks. These women have lost their mind. You need to be a fly on the wall to truly know how they think of men.
Guys, I don’t blame them for scare of being in a relationship.
There are still a few good ones out there…but most of them…caution!!

[WhiteBoyChill]

@midnightmoon05 Its exceptionally hard to find ones worthy tho and it requires a shit ton of patience