As there are advantages and disadvantages to BOTH genders, what is the point in attacking the other for its advantages or complaining?

[Sixgunsound]

[21Cowboy21]

I find that both genders will ultimately end up surrounded by their equal (s) long term after variance works itself out.

Sometimes someone may swing above their level for a night - but long term people will generally commit to their equals both ways for both casual long term, and exclusive ling term relationships.

Working on yourself is the easiest way to obtain what you want in life - most people blaming the other gender (who likely has never even met them) for their own shortcomings is usually just to lazy to work on and put in the actual difficult and consistently hard effort over a long time horizon to actually thrive and get what they want in life - it seems like a cop out for blaming the other gender claiming the own you something when they do in fact actually not.

[Sixgunsound]

You make excellent points.

[Weapon77]

I think the only "point" is that is makes emotionally immature people feel better. And in some cases, the complaining is more just a way of trying to process or understand something.

But yeah, it's pretty stupid to complain in general. And while certain things aggravate me about the difference between men and women, I'm not going to bash women all day because of it. How does that help anything?

[Sixgunsound]

It doesn't help at all.

[TrueConfection]

I don't see a point either, other than someone trying to prove they are a victim of circumstance. It just creates resentment that festers and poisons the well. I think it's better to focus on what we love about the opposite sex and cherish those things.

[Sixgunsound]

You have a great attitude about this whole thing.

[Msputiton]

Exactly.

It is so weird how it's a constant competition as to who has it harder.

We both have disadvantages and advantages.

Let's just embrace and understand that.

[Sixgunsound]

If this thought process caught on MGTOW and feminism would both have to close up shop. And GAG would be eerily silent. Do it!!!

[Msputiton]

Lmao🤣

[LazerBean]

There is no point, and the majority of disadvantages could be avoided if people thought things through just a bit anyway.

[Sixgunsound]

I would argue that disadvantages actually force men and women to co e together for their and their children's survival. In that way, a little intelligent thought about how to turn the obstacle into the way would not be misspent.

[Cubus]

One side does not see (or does not want to see) disadvantages of the other side.

[Sixgunsound]

It makes the sense of moral superiority which powers so much internet whining and complaining go away.

[NathanDavis]

there's no point... so I just don't do it

[Sixgunsound]

You have a good attitude about this. If you lower yourself to someone else's domain they will beat you with greater experience.

[NathanDavis]

unless they're Aaron Rodgers... then they lose to the youngsters 9 to 1 ratio