So I was talking to a lady about 8 years older than me. She has 2 kids and I already knew that. She was also recently divorced and has been for a year. So we would talk and text a lot and we went out on a couple of dates and hooked up. We both could talk like we’ve know each other for a while. We had great vibes and personalities. after about 2 weeks, She decided a couple of days later and texted me that“ been thinking and this isn’t really what I want unfortunately. Really appreciate you and your vibes but it’s just not it for me :(“ and that I’m an amazing person and hope there is no hard feelings. We don’t really talk anymore but she comments on my social media post sometimes.
Girls, Why would she let me know that we can still be friends?
What Girls Said
She likes you just not as a boyfriend.. she probably doesn't want a relationship either because she wants to keep her options open to hoe about or because the age gap since you are in different places in life.
I can see that but the age gap one I don't know cuz she said that she can’t trust guys her age if they are single cuz it seems like they don’t have it together lol. I don't know that’s what she said but who knows. Shea 33 and she knows what I do for a living and I have a great job and everything. She said that she thinks that I wouldn’t want to be a step daddy. But she didn’t even give me a chance lol. Like I feel like if I’m taking u out on a date and talking to you then wouldn’t that seem like I would be interested right? Maybe I wrong who knows
Well you would think, and especially you know about her kids... but it's more likely she just ain't ready to settle down again right now if she was married for a long time. It's probably just an excuse...
Yeah I get that. But I got the answer later today cuz she posted herself with the guy at dinner so now we know why. Normally there’s always another person in the picture but I just don’t get why people go out on dates with others if they know they are gonna end things with them
Cuz they are assholes... she is the type of people who ruin dating and turn guys into fuck boys...