Girls, What do you do when you like a guy and you want him to approach you?

[Anonymous]

[purplepoppy]

If you already know him just strike up a normal conversation. Guys aren't naturally good at talking so you've got to take control a lot of the time.
Make sure your clear that you're single and available. You don't have to say it, just talk about what you did on weekend without mentioning a guys name.

Another trick is to mention some place you'd like to go but you're friends don't want to. Guys will nearly always immediately suggest you go together. Guys like to think it was their idea.

[Stressyalaire]

I... don't have that mentality. I can't get the message across by waiting for him to come to me. I talk to him. I engage with him.

[Nikki1989]

If I like him that much, I will approach him.

[suzzieQ]

I approach him... I dont expect people to read my mind. I wouldn't expect someone to do something I wouldn't do.

[Anonymous]

Start touching him a lot when you see him, on the arm or shoulder or chest or brush against him when you leave.

[Anonymous]

I try to get eye contact and smile to him. If he smiles back I might approach him first, depending on the circumstances.

[tinydiva1991]

I’m very touchy-feely with him.

[Cassie88]

I freeze, and then panic.

[Agape93]

I prefer to do the approaching

[PrettyPriya]

Me too... just have to be calm and collected approaching a koala. Don't want to spook the fella.

[Agape93]

Agreed entirely. You don't want to get bit... only nibbled

[PrettyPriya]

To the asker, if you are not comfortable approaching a guy, you are going to have to send out some signals. I have a few "go to" that I use to flirt. They have been shelved since getting married but they are all yours if you want them.

[melanieeeB]

I casually start a conversation

[LovingJo]

I flirt and gauge his response back