Should I run away with my boyfriend and leave everything behind?

[lostinlove21111]

me and my boyfriend have been going out for 6 months even though its not that long it feels more like 6 years.we have already talked about getting married and having a kid one day but all of that was put on the line because he moved 7 hours away to another state. we both are still in high school but we both have major worrying issues and we both don't know if we will make it without being with each other.so he came up with a plan to runaway when he comes to visit in about a week. I kind of want to but then again I have my worries. I love him more than anything and life with him would be great just I don't know if I can sleep in a tent all winter.. I don't know what to do!:( he's the love of my life and I don't want our relationship to fade away:(

[Dom163]

No you need to think about this a true testament of your love for each other would be, being able to communicate with each other and work through your worry issues together as a couple and the distance would only make it so when you two see each other it would be that much more special but you need to think about your families how they would worry how your friends would worry running away isn't the solution here because right now the two of you are still maturing mentally and your hormones are running wild I suspect that even if you did run away as soon as thugs began to get tough tensions would rise and trouble would start so this is just something to think about

[Anonymous]

Why do people move so much in America, why can't they just find a nest and chill in it?

[lostinlove21111]

lol its not that simple..i wish it was.

[floppy423]

If he's the love of your life then he would do what is best for you...Sleeping in a tent? No offense, that's a little absurd. If he really loves you and its ment to be then, not even distance would stop you two from loving each other...Me and my boyfriend are in this situation, its hard but in the end its worth working it out because we love each other so much...Trust me running away is the last thing you need to do.

[lostinlove21111]

the thing is I know I could do a long distance relationship because of how much I love him. I could deal with only seeing him when he comes to visit but I don't think he can do that. he is really insecure which is crazy because he's a really popular good looking guy. he just worries a lot about me doing things I mean we have VERY strict rules. I know if I tell him I don't want to go he would be soooooooooooo upset it would break his heart.

[floppy423]

I know what you mean...But you honestly are planning on sleeping in a tent? First of, how would you get money, how would you get an education...You just need to sit down with him and make him understand. That you love him very dearly, you are the only one for him, if he wants you he needs to understand that living in a tent, is not goning to make either of you happy...Runnning away would more that likely drive you two more apart. Besides, think of your family and friends...

[floppy423]

Besides if you two ran away chances your familes, or school would have the police out looking for you anyways

[floppy423]

*chances are