Getting more compliments/attention from other woman than men?

[Anonymous]

I’ve noticed I get more looks, stares and compliments from other women than men. Does this specifically mean anything about my look? I know the angle of “men don’t want to be creeps” but that doesn’t apply here because I have other friends who get more attention and compliments from men, who are also attractive. I know men are more visual, so what’s the equivalent for women?

[D_Bone_Steak]

Pretty much 50/50 for me. You're right about the fear men might have though... if you're giving that vibe, dudes with a brain will avoid you at all costs. I don't know you though so you'll have to ask yourself if you're giving that vibe off.

I'm not going to lie... I get around some women and there is no way in hell I want to even look in their direction. It's all about the vibe. It's like I just don't want to get in trouble and you can kind of sense what chicks will get you into trouble.

[Asker]

Can you detail what the “vibe” is? And what the trouble is? I notice a lot of men avoid me avoid eye contact or sometimes move out of my way suddenly sometimes sometimes even leave the area if I’m in it?

[D_Bone_Steak]

The vibe... I'll try to describe it. We all know that chick that will just put you on blast... very publicly... just for saying the wrong thing. That would be a chick to just avoid. Say something to racist or sexist and she will go off and in as much of a public way as she can so that everybody will know you're this, this, or that. They type of chick that just looks for dirt on people so she can expose them. ... needless to say, best to avoid that chick at all costs.

Other types... ever hear the term "Karen?" Karens will freak out on you in public and ask to see your management. I think if you do a google search on the Karen, it's usually an entitled chick, usually white, and will be quick to call you shit like racist or some stupid shit.

Feminists... the dead giveaway is things like colored hair and the septum ring. They will do shit like blow up at a dude because he held the door open for her. It's like entitled on a whole nother level. The overt ones do shit like grow armpit hair and die it a color just like they do their hair. Nasty women... and all to easy to piss them off.

I could keep going on what the vibe is, but I think the common theme is going to be she is easy to piss off and she will make a public scene. I mean even the gym chick that is secretly recording and puts you on blast for looking in her direction while she's looking fucking hawt af... You'll get put on blast either way...

As for you... I can't see you and I don't know you... I would just ask that you kind of scan yourself and see if you give off any of those signals... or what I call the vibe. Like do you make people think you might freak out over some bullshit? ... also don't blame the dudes for being ultra-scared... the fear is actually justified.

[Asker]

Thanks for your insight.

[Dragonstarterplus]

If your friends are still getting lots of compliments then there might be some aura around you that guys sense that says "you guys better not say anything unnecessary to me or I'll accuse you of sexual harassment!"

[D_Bone_Steak]

Fucking A dude... That's exactly one of the types I should've described in my response.

[Anonymous]

It has always been 50/50 with me. I just figured some men don't have the balls to approach me.