So I have this friend, I don't know her too well but I like her she seems cool.
However I noticed she keeps saying she doesn't know anyone here (she recently moved to a new city), and she doesn't like it here because she doesn't know anyone here.
It's a bit offensive because even though I'm just getting to know her, it's like saying she doesn't really value getting to know me or something.
Not sure what to make of it.
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She literally doesn't know anyone. You are an associate. It is a little offensive. I'd then ask her Dang sis what about me? That's how you feel? And she will respond and you will have your answer
I did joke about it saying you have me, but she said it again some time after I said that.
It makes me feel like she's hanging out with me because she's bored as opposed ot she really wants to be friends
Maybe that was too close to comfort. She doesn't really know you like that love. Give this girl some space maybe she will open up?
Hmm honestly I get wht you're saying but if I was in a new city and I got a friend and I'd be happy.
But yeah I too thought maybe she just needs some space I get that.
Nah she's clearly been hurt before. And trusting just anyone cause she has a friend
I'm sure your intentions are well but let people heal and don't force them or pressure them into feeling any type of way
Well you said you were just getting to know her, so you don;t really know her and she does not really know you.
I mean it's not like we're total strangers we've met a couple of times.
It is not the same as really knowing someone, but having said that i wonder why she moved there in the first place.
It makes me feel like she's hanging out with me because she's bored as opposed ot she really wants to be friends
Hmmmm i don't know, but if she was bored and did not want to be friends then she would most probably not be with you because that would make her more bored
Not offensive. You're overthinking this.