How should I respond to her rejection?

[Anonymous]

2 months ago, a group of girls came to visit my city. I met them while I was out with a couple of friends. We exchanged Instagrams and I’ve been interacting one of them, let’s call her Monica, the most. She lives about 6 hours away by car.

Monica and I message each other nearly every day, sometimes flirtatious, sometimes not. A few days ago she posted a story thanking her “boyfriend” for keeping her company while she was cooking. I asked who is the boyfriend and she said she was joking, she’s single. Then I said I was interested and she replied that “she’s enjoying single life and Jesus is enough ❤️”. As many times as I’ve been rejected, I’ve never gotten this response. Lol This is odd to me.

How should I respond?

Maybe I could’ve seen this coming because she never likes my posts or stories, but her friends do. Or is she playing hard to get?

[Anonymous]

It sounds like Monica has made it clear that she is not interested in pursuing a romantic relationship with you and is content being single. It is important to respect her decision and to avoid pressuring or pushing her to change her mind.

In terms of how to respond, it may be best to acknowledge and respect her decision, while also expressing that you value her as a friend and would like to continue the friendship. You could say something like, "I understand and respect your decision, and I value our friendship regardless. I hope we can continue talking and getting to know each other as friends."

It is important to avoid coming across as pushy or demanding, and to prioritize respecting her boundaries and wishes. If she continues to show disinterest or disengagement, it may be best to give her space and focus on other friendships and relationships.

[lightbulb27]

sounds like she said no.

You could respond..."yea, but I don't recall the elephants eating alone on the big noahs raft, ya know what I mean? sumptin' about two by two sounds interesting..."

It's open ended, means nothing, someone ludicrous, if she read the bible she knows what it's talking about "noahs ark" and if she's interested she will reach out.

or makeup your own crap, it is really best done in the moment in your context. but watch some videos how to communicate with women.

I'd stay away from direct "I want this" given she's avoidant, girls communicate indirectly and like play.

I doubt she is gonna bite...

[TrueConfection]

This doesn't sound like she's playing hard to get. She said no. I think the only response would be to thank her for her honesty (even if she's aloof about a boyfriend). You need to put it in your mind that she is only a friend (and not a very good one).

[NostalgiaSenpi]

You should move on. Block her on everything. She's worth another second of your time.

[gorydetails]

Respond “ok, well you and Jesus have fun. TTYL” and stop interacting with her.

[Anonymous]

Focus on her friend. Flirt with her friend in her presence. Ignore her.

Dude Play mind games.

[magiusX26]

you were turned down. movevon kiddo

[Jmmmfi4]

Tell her to fuck off

[In_Trance]

don't. move on