How should I view rejection?

[Anonymous]

Like I'm not good enough? Or I made a mistake (learn from it)? Or it was probably out of control?

[havingfun2023]

Just appreciate, as I do from my own experience, it's always nicer than ending up in court. So I for one, without wanting to go into my backstory further, would just say, view rejection as a learning and move on. Move on and or even just be content with either being single, or preferring dating apps where the woman comes to you/asks you out first. Unless they're a scammer lol. What I mean is, as I should know now, if a woman doesn't like a man first, then it's just nothing gonna change their mind, not by trying, not by money, not by flirting and not by wearing nicer clothes or a nicer car. Lol. Which probably by now should all be obvious then again I'm almost 30 and the court case was back when I was 18. Anyways. Lesson I learned, best I hope stranger you don't end up in court or in police custody, so I for one no advice, I for one am still single at 29, however my wonderful family and close loyal friends, that's all a straight guy could ask for 👍🥳 talking about me here, anyways, peace ✌🏻☮️ no advice.

[BourbonAndBacon]

There are so many good women out there that sometimes it takes some rejection to find one for you. Turn yourself into a good man and know what you can bring to a relationship so that when you get rejected you can be confident that she is making a mistake and not you.

[_Maya_]

No dude. Don't look at it as you aren't good enough. Look at it as you didn't meet the right girl and you weren't a match. That happens. It is the whole point of dating is to see if you and someone else are a good fit for each other. More times than not you aren't going to hit relationship gold and things don't work out. Happens to all of us. I do agree what you said about learning from the experience. If you can take away even one thing that is great and only helps you in the future. It could be simple things like well I don't really like shy girls or I need to move a bit slower.

[virtualwasp]

depends on the rejection. Every circumstance is different. Sometimes its not intentional and people have bad days.

[OlderAndWiser]

Rejection means she thinks you two are not a good match. It doesn't mean that you are defective and it doesn't mean that she is a bitch. It just means that she perceives you as the kind of guy with whom she would not be happy or satisfied long term.

[HelpfulWoman]

it's a thing that happens and has no bearing on your worth.

[KrakenAttackin]

Many women get off by rejecting guys. Just move on.

[Jmmmfi4]

I DEFINITELY GO WITH NOT GOOD ENOUGH

[In_Trance]

however you want to