Why are women more attracted to men that have women?

[Anonymous]

Men that have a lot of women or men that women see with other women makes the man more attractive. Why is that?

[Anonymous]

It is not accurate to say that all women are attracted to men who have a lot of women or are seen with other women. Attraction is a complex and individual experience that can be influenced by a wide range of factors, including personal values, preferences, and cultural norms.

However, there are some potential explanations for why some women may be attracted to men who are seen with other women:

1. Social proof: When a man is seen with other women, it can signal to other women that he is desirable or attractive, as he has been chosen by other women. This can create a sense of social proof that can make the man more appealing to other women.

2. Confidence and social skills: Men who are successful with women may have a higher level of confidence and social skills, which can be attractive to women who value these qualities in a partner.

3. Evolutionary psychology: From an evolutionary perspective, women may be attracted to men who are seen with other women because it signals that the man has already passed a certain level of sexual selection, and is therefore more likely to be a desirable mate.

It is important to remember that attraction is a complex and individual experience, and that not all women are attracted to the same types of men or qualities. It is also important to prioritize respect and consent in any relationship or interaction, and to avoid making assumptions or generalizations about any group of people based on external factors like gender or behavior.

[ShadezMcgee]

Because it is pre selection. Women can get mad about that term, but it's true. When a man has women around him or is in a relationship it shows he has the qualities and potential to be in a relationship amd stability. That in turn draws more women out of curiosity and see what he is about.

[noemiii]

I personally get completely uninterested in men who are surrounded by women or who have partners. It’s not appealing to me to be apart of the bunch nor do I feel the need to compete for a man’s attention. Either they want me or they don’t.

Now, I will say this is very common with women to be like the question. I’ve noticed when I’m with my boyfriend girls who’d normally pay him no mind suddenly want his attention just because we’re together. All I have to say is that if a man wants to leave a relationship, he will. And if he wants to leave, he can. I don’t give a damn.

[Asker]

I should have said in general

[noemiii]

Even if it is in general, one can only give an opinion as their experience. I can’t speak on women who do that I can only speak on myself so

[WonderBell99]

I usually get turned off when I learn that a guy, I'm interested in is dating someone else. I'm anything but a desperate homewrecker.

[Asker]

I should have said in general

[FilmGuy93]

It's social validation and proofing.

[Anonymous]

It's a very real phenomenon, and there have been a lot of studies done on the subject. The consensus among phycologists is that a taken man sort of has a proven track record or is pre-approved by another woman. Women are genetically programmed to be more attracted to taken men due to thousands of years of evolution.

https://www.newscientist.com/article/dn17619-its-true-all-the-taken-men-are-best/

[misogynistic_pig]

I have already explained that many times.

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mate_choice_copying

[Pegases]

Women want to be chosen by the winners, and lots of women is sort of an indicator that you are in demand.

[Telekinetic-Potato]

Because they feel like something is being taken away from them

[Berethor]

A man is like a key, a woman is like a lock? high body count don't make man unappealing.

[Avicenna]

Because he's been vetted by other women and found desirable

[UniquelyBasic]

It shows he has something to offer if other women are selecting him either to date or to be friends.

[Anonymous]

It's thier competitive nature. Women are 80% ego. They want to be pursued because of ego. They don't want a guy until another woman has his attention because of ego. They dress up because of ego.

[LiamJHayden]

Probably because a lot of single guys emit a stench of desperation, and most women are repulsed by that.

[Anonymous]

Because it's a forbidden thing. Women want what they can't have.

[In_Trance]

Because single guys are desperate. Desparation is ugly.