I am really confused about this girl?

[Anonymous]

I am talking to this girl at work. We met for coffee and had a great time. We chatted for an hour and a half. I asked her if she wanted to go to a 2 hour art class. She thought it was a great idea. Yet, at the same time she is friendly but distant especially since our first get together. She greets me and at times she comes closer to me when we passes by me to greet me. When I messaged her about the tickets to the art class if she is still ok with it. She said cool what’s the day and time. Yeah, I do like her and she probably guessed that. Just uncertain why there is a friendly distancing (but always moving toward me) go on but at the same time looking forward for us to go into the class. Really confused.

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To add more facts: During our coffee hang out, she told me she is quite introverted. She also told me, to my surprise, that she would like to hang out multiple times at coffee shops and record stores. We both like music. I went with the art class because she told me she likes to work with her hands and she likes art. I appreciate the advice given here.

[Anonymous]

It's difficult to know for certain what someone else is thinking or feeling, but based on the information you've provided, it's possible that the girl you're interested in is still figuring out her feelings and preferences.

It's possible that she enjoys spending time with you and is looking forward to the art class, but is also unsure about how she wants to proceed in terms of a romantic relationship. She may be trying to strike a balance between being friendly and approachable, while also maintaining some distance to avoid sending mixed signals or making things awkward.

It's also worth noting that people can have many different reasons for their behavior, and it's not always related to their interest in a romantic relationship. For example, she may simply be a naturally friendly and outgoing person, or she may have other personal or professional obligations that are keeping her busy or distracted.

Ultimately, the best way to clarify your feelings and intentions is to have an open and honest conversation with the girl. You can express your interest in her in a respectful and non-threatening way, and ask if she feels the same way. This can help to ensure that both parties are on the same page and can avoid misunderstandings or mixed signals.

[Asker]

Thank you for your advice. I needed some clarity. One day I will ask her but in the mean time I am going to enjoy spending time with her.

[Opinion Owner]

You're welcome! It's great that you're taking a patient and enjoyable approach to getting to know this girl. Building a relationship takes time, and it's important to focus on enjoying each other's company and getting to know each other better. Best of luck to you!

[Iron_Man]

Keep working on her some women are very complicated

[devilish-cutie]

maybe she is just careful cause you work together

[Avicenna]

Maybe she feels you aren't moving fast enough.

[Anonymous]

I am confused by how old you really are. 🤔