There is this girl. I met her at school, I’m a senior, she’s a junior. I’ve known her for 5 months who I met through my friends. Her, I, and my friends hung out at school usually playing football. It seems like she had feelings for my friends because she kisses their cheeks sometimes. While she has never kissed me she hangs out closest to me. During summer we’ve been texting more on snap and I have had feeling for her. Beginning this month I was talking to her, she sent a snap saying “hehehe” and I responded with a heart on snap. After that she sent me “😏🤙”, I sent her “😏😘” she told me to come to her work. When I did I saw her and her grandparents. she introduced me and said I was her “bestie”. After that I followed her around work and talked. she invited me to see “Barbie” with her (no I’m not gay and she knows that). I said yes and to message me the day she wanted to go. After that we kept “flirting” I thought because she was sending me “❤️🍒🔫” emojis. I asked her what she meant. she said “love boobs”. After that I said oh and she said “gotta make the old men happy” and I asked what she mean by that, she said “🤦♀️”. After that I made it clear by saying “Listen Maddie, I like you, I want you, I’ve liked you since the first time I laid eyes on you. I’m always thinking about you even when I don’t want to. You’re beautiful, your beauty is like sunshine in the morning. I want you because every time I wake up I know I have my own sunshine that I don’t share with the rest of the world. I want you and I’ll never give up on you. I have only eyes for you and I don’t give a damn if you have someone else in mind.” Then she said - “that’s a lot, I need more time to think”. After that she’s hurt her foot and so far hasn’t gotten back specific to that. We’ve messaged and she sent me yesterday “ur hot”. I responded with “🤨🫣”. after that sent me a photo without a bra, just her shoulder and above the chest. What does this mean and I don’t know what to do. Is she using me?
I am so confused about this girl, help?
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It sounds like she's toying with you or just having fun, no strings attached. She doesn't seem like she wants something serious. What you sent her was a lot and probably overwhelming for her to read (I recommend dialling it back next time, you can get your point across with less intensity), but I think she would have gotten back to you already if she felt the same way or was interested in more than just flirting. I recommend dropping her if you want something more serious, but of course you can also continue if you're ok with this never leading to anything.