Girls Help! Does she like me? I'm a lesbian that needs straight girl advise.

[thatgirl002]

(Hey girls, I know I'm asking about a lesbian situation and I am also a girl but girls know how girls think and I really need your advise. I met a girl online(lesbian) she lives about 20mins away from me but we never crossed paths. We started texting for 2 days heavily and we get along great. I asked her for her number and always initiated conversation. She always responds quickly whenever I text her. She has beated around the bush for us to hangout so I asked her and she said yes twice. She says she will be quiet and shy until she warms up to me even though she says she's not shy and is loud with her friends. What confuses me is that she doesn't ever text me first because of this I didn't text her one day to see if she would and she didn't. I texted her the next day and she said she has a busy week and will let me know a day ahead when she is available and that was the end of that convo. Does she like me? I'm confused.

[Anonymous]

I think she is interested,but doesn't want to show too much interest until she has met you.I have met people off the net and it is very nerve racking,so I imagine she would be a bit shy and nervous about meeting you,so all you know she might be holding back a bit because of that.And I am always nervous and a bit shy around new people,but once people get to know me,I'm really loud and out going.So I can understand where she's coming from when she said to you that she will be shy...And not only that,of course she is going to be shy around the girl she likes!Especially meeting for the first time.I think you should,hold back a bit and see how long you can go without texting her,the ball is in her court then and it will give her a chance to think about you and think hmm why hasn't she messaged me..!When you do meet though,I hope it goes well for you :).

[thatgirl002]

Thanks so much, your point of view is amazing..the ball is on her court now so ill wait and hopefully she does take charge when she's ready

[Opinion Owner]

No worries,hope she contacts you :)

[anita0191]

I tihnk she's trying to figure out her feelings for you. If she doesn't text you soon I'd say she probably isn't interested. Good luck. :)

[thatgirl002]

Thanks alot.

[Anonymous]

she could be. I mean your a complete stranger really. You just me online, but you can't create that closeness till you meet her in person. (unless you already hung out in person) I would say that you should give her some time. She can't open up to a girl that she doesn't really know that well in person.. btwy what site did you use?

[thatgirl002]

thats true..no we haven't hung out yet, that's what I'm waiting for so I can see if there's a possibility of something..the site is Downelink.

[Opinion Owner]

yeah I'd just relax and wait. Don't worry to much. If she wants to hang with you, she'll hang with you. :) and thanks

[thatgirl002]

no thank you lol..n are you a girl or boy btw..great advice either way.

[Opinion Owner]

haha the blue icon = guys. I am a guy :]

[thatgirl002]

Lol sry I was checking on my cell and cldnt see it.

[nina001]

goodluck sweety!