I'm torn between to girls.. help me I don't want to cheat on anyone..

I am 16 years old . I have a girlfriend . we are in different college. but still I somehow managed to ask her out and she accepted it . after sometime we came in relationship. but problem is few days ago she told me that she kissed her ex mistakenly. I had already told her not to contact him. but she said he was frustrated so she had to help him. and she helped him like this.. what the hell.. later when I talked to that guy he said they were in contact from one month . she had opened a fake account to contact him on Facebook so I wouldn't notice. I ask her to give me password of that account she didn't give me. but that guy did. I was shocked to know that she was planning to ditch me after few days she kissed him. but when I told her that I saw all the messages of her fake account she told me that she was not gonna ditch me and all she had chatted with that guy was fake. she said she was just finding reason to betray him. so he would not contact her again. I was so angry to know all this . how was I gonna believe all this sh*t. because when we were in relationship she didn't really express her love like other girlfriends do . we had kissed each other. but still I felt our relation could have been more lovely. after this incident she called me and told me that she was confused between two of us. and she didn't know whom to choose. and now she wanted to be with me and she was involved in me, not in that guy anymore and she loves me and all she needs a second chance. she promised me that this won't happen again and she will not contact him .she cried so much. and I fell for that and I gave her second chance. It's been two days after this incident happened . now there is something wrong with me. now I'm confused between two girls . my girlfriend and my school crush. let her name be priya. priya was my school crush. we didn't talk in school so much. but when I met her in my college( she is in my college) she asked for my mobile number and then we started chatting. that girl priya has helped me alot. she cares for more than any other girl. even she brings lunch for me, made of her hands. I'm so grateful to her. we get along really well. I have not told her about my girlfriend yet (let my girlfriend's name be prachi). I have told her that prachi and me are friends . prachi and priya don't know each other as they are in diffrent college. before coming in relationship with prachi I had proposed priya but in two days I told her that we should be friends . I gave her reason that it was difficult for me to concentrate on study due to relationship. she fell for that and she told me that she would wait for me as long as it would take. she have not accepted any boy's proposal after this. real reason of me doing breakup was ,I was confused between priya and prachi.but I chose prachi at that time . when me and priya are together we act like friends.but when we chat on mobile , she gets romantic what to do now I don't want to cheat on anyone please help me.its urgent
Updates:
I linked up again with priyea We are now having good time. but still I'm not sure about something. she said that she loves me, she wants to be with me,well I admit it. but is it possible that she would be thinking of that guy (her ex) when we would be doing romance or having good time with each other,as she was in relation with him. All I'm asking is, is it possible that she would remembering her time of romance with that guy when she would be doing same thing with me? do all girls do the same?

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  • If your girlfriend cheated on you to begin with and you are having doubts about giving her second chances then I would say ditch her. The fact that she made the effort to make a fake account just to contact her ex and to hide it from you is enough to convince me that she is not committed to you at all.

    So if I was in your position, I would leave the cheating woman.

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    • but she is not leaving me. she is not letting me go. she is saying she would do anything to be with me .

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    • well thank you very much ... you don't know how much you have just helped me.. Thank you..

    • You're welcome! Have a good day! :)

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  • Just don't cheat at all. Iccidental kissing is cheating if you allowed it to happen. If you kiss volentarily then it's cheating. Plus if you called the relationship off then it's for the best. Do not worry about what happens afterward. Just focus on you right now. And any girl who lies to a guy she claims she loves does really love that guy all.

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  • I think you should go with your heart! I mean like you said prachi is not as, caring as you would like her to be and that's not what you like and on top of that. You caught her lying and the whole accidentally kissing her Ex. wth! I think you should talk or start something with priya cause, you've notice how much she cares for you and the little stuff she does to help you out. Why not? You should go for it.

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  • Don't cheat, that os rule number 1. follow your heart, always :)

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  • I forget who's who, but I think you should break up with your girlfriend. Don't cheat on her because that makes you just as bad as her! She doesn't sounds like she loves you enough. She cheated on you and went behind your back. And she's not as passionate about you as you hoped her to be. I don't think you two are meant t be together. The other girl sound like she likes you a lot and you like her a lot too. She also seems sweet and not the type to cheat on you since she clearly likes you. I think you should break up with your girlfriend and go for that other girl. But make sure you tell the other girl about how you were in a relationship before. You cannot start a relationship with lies... that's just wrong.

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  • if you're 16 while she's in college, it had like a 99% chance of failure anyway. and your grammar doesn't help much either(sorry, but true). and like they say, if you love two girls always go for the second, for the first you didn't love enough in the first place since you fell for the second.

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  • You're 16. HAHAHA. Wait a few years and then you'll have real relationship drama.

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  • If you love one person, (well she's not being really a good girlfriend, "accidentally", psh.) but you then fall for another, go for the 2nd person because if you loved the 1st one, you wouldn't have loved the 2nd other. Johnny Depp quote sort of~ I don't know the exact words for the exact quote, but something along this line.

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  • How can you "accidentally" kiss someone? Let alone your ex? Why is she with him in the first place?

    She sounds like she's full of sh*t. And you're so super young.. don't worry about girls like this.

    Leave the lying girl for the nice one. Simple as that.

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