Guys, how do I stop cheating on my girl?

[Anonymous]

I want to stop but I just can't.

[DEXTER_LIVES]

For me I wouldn't want to hurt somebody that I love, and I also wouldn't want to live with a guilty conscience. I need to feel free of guilt within a committed relationship so I can love her completely and never have anything to hide. I need to be a good person in order to love myself. That's just how I am though. If I care about somebody and I bond with her, she becomes very important and I want her approval, I want her to be happy. Everything isn't just about me anymore and cheating is just a selfish act plain and simple.

I guess you took a different path and got yourself addicted to cheating. Like with any addiction you need to separate yourself from whatever is hurting you. In this case it's probably your other women.

[Sandeeppingping]

I mean the way I see it we all got that one flaw we'd like to change my guy, maybe try a few different theories in practice, like either promise yourself you're not gonna do it for 50 days regardless of how you feel then after that you can cheat again, or lessen the frequency gradually (although I find this one to be useless, it's like asking an alcoholic to drink less while giving him free range of drinking, he WILL drink more), what I'm saying is try stuff out man and see what happens

[OlderAndWiser]

"I want to stop but I just can't." No, if you REALLY wanted to stop it, you would. Just admit to yourself that you don't want to stop.

[Asker]

If that was the case everybody would have near perfect lives.

[OlderAndWiser]

No. It simply means that many people have little interest in leading good lives.

[Anonymous]

I'm not even sure how to respond to this... if someone hits on you just tell them you have a girlfriend and you're not interested. If you are interested enough to peruse anyway then obviously you don't really want a girlfriend...

[Guy13]

Why can’t you? Say No. Don’t put yourself in those situations. It is not difficult 🤷🏻‍♂️

[Asker]

You don't understand. I'm sure you have one thing in your life you'd like to change right?

[Guy13]

This isn’t catch yourself before stress biting nails…. It’s the same as the porn, drug, and alcohol folks where the technology, , paraphernalia, and friend set have to go. Hitting bottom, like losing reputation and his company, is required first.
I don’t know what that looks like in your situation. I do know your brain 🧠 is being rewired and your Nature is changing to a lower level animal.
Search Hooked and body count book. It was first a neurology medical journal research publication.

[SmokinAces2000]

Unless girls are forcing your dick into them you can stop you are just selfish and choose to cheat, if you want to sleep with other people be single

[Asker]

You're too inexperience to understand. It's not as simple as you think.

[SmokinAces2000]

I’m too inexperienced? Lol you don’t know me at all and it is that simple like I said women aren’t forcing your dick into them

[FilmGuy93]

Stop putting yourself in situations where cheating is likely to happen.

[Juxtapose]

You don't actually want to stop dude, stop lying to us.

[Asker]

Why would a waste time writing this out if I wasn't seeking some tips and solutions?

[Juxtapose]

Because you want to run away from the truth, that the solution is within yourself. You lack the empathy and will to not cheat, you don't really care about the women you date.

[KrakenAttackin]

If you have so many options there is no need to stop. Women would rather share a stud than have a beta all to themselves.

[Anonymous]

guess you're a hopeless cause, enjoy the karma

[SiberFox]

Leave her you dirtbag, that way it's not cheating

[Asker]

C'mon dude you don't have to call me a dirtbag. I'm trying to change.

[Shamalien]

You are a dirtbag. Let that guilt motivate you

[Part2603]

Dump her. No more cheating.