How to stop cheating?

[Anon3421]

I’ve cheated on every single person I’ve dated except for my current boyfriend.
I justified it before because my ex’s treated me terribly…. but in reality I probably would of done it even if they treated me well.

I care about my boyfriend so much, I’ve known him for years and we’ve been dating for about half a year now. I’ve had so many urges to cheat recently, and so many thoughts that I shouldn’t be thinking. I don’t know what to do.

There’s nothing lacking in our relationship, he’s wonderful and so communicative. I feel so guilty and terrible, I’m sitting on the couch just crying about it right now. I don’t want to do anything I’ll regret, but the urges are so strong…. does anyone know how to make them go away?
I’m literally thinking of talking to my mom about it because I feel so stuck and evil

[molonski2]

You are young , variety is the spice of life , don't think you simply have to be with one person , monogamy is completely overated , get out there and get amongst it , and find something nice and tidy on the side , think of the excitement a breaking in a nice new one..
Go for it , enjoy.

[nachosaresexy]

Hmmm that's a tough one. Does the urge to cheat happen in the moment when you're around another guy, or is it something you think about & basically plan in advance?

[Anonymous]

I think you need to be single for a while so that you can properly work on your commitment issues or maybe monogamy is just not for you, maybe you need someone that’s okay with a polyamorous or an open relationship

[awkward_author]

I think you might have commitment issues. It may help to speak with a therapist/psychologist to process why you have them, and work through it.

[VikingWarLord]

Monogamy is NOT natural.

Read the book "SEX AT DAWN" by Cacilda Jetha and Christopher Ryan

[hi8sm3]

genuine cheater. well anyway, there is no go back... ask from someone who had alcohol not wanting it.

[Anon3421]

I’m not trolling, I genuinely hate myself for this shit and want to change. I don’t like hurting people, I don’t like ruining relationships and friendships.
I don’t understand why I have these urges, but maybe if I can understand why I have them I’ll be able to prevent them

[Jintendo18]

GO to an SA meeting. AA and NA meetings have kept people sober for decades.

[jasco]

Just imagine every guy looking at you and they seem ulgy. the only one whose not is your boyfriend

[Guanfei]

Stop being a piece of shit. Cheating is a choice, a choice you make. The solution is very simple.

[Twalli]

You should discuss it with someone who won't judge you whether that's your mom or your therapist

[Berethor]

Once a ho, always a ho.

[Drumlin2001]

Talk to your boyfriend. Explain everything.

[lycanthrope3]

No big deal