So I met this girl through a friend of mine. They're coworkers in a fast food restaurant which I come often. She was staring at me a lot.. I looked back sometimes and she would look away that stuff.
Since my friend kinda knows her he went up to her and asked her if she had a boyfriend.. no she didn't. He told her that I had interest in her. (I didn't ask her myself that day cause I was stressed out due to personal stuff). My friend helped me out. I was waiting in my car. Anyway she started blushing and got red he said and she asked how old I was cause she knew he meant me. She asked if the age was a problem (cause i'm 21 and she's 25) but no that's not a problem for me. She told him she would think about it.
I later on went up to her myself. She gave me a hand, introduced herself. I asked her if she wanted to go do something sometime, she said she was really awkward in that stuff but I told her I was too so it was ok. She said she would think about it. She gave me her IG and said I could dm her and we could talk. Well I send her a dm.. Nothing.. I also send her a request. still requested. Few days ago she was driving in front of me and I saw her looking in her mirror cause she recognised my car. And today I saw her again and she saw me. I wanted to talk to her in her free time but it never happened. She also gave me my food which I ordered but she said nothing. Yeah have a nice day.. She later on saw me with a few buddies outside by my car. She was talking to a coworker by her car but we both had moments we shortly looked at each other but that's it. Also I got to hear that she's gone for 9 weeks bc of her study or whatever.
Then later on I also got to hear from her coworkers (I know some of them) that she had planned a date today but cancelled cause she just didn't wanna go or whatever. Well all I can say is.. I felt not so good. I don't understand why she didn't just reject me right away if she's just gonna ignore me now.
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Listen to me Sunny Boy, LISTEN UP!
She did you a favor. You're still wayyy too young to get your emotions involved with any female. The worst thing a guy can do is CASH IN HIS CHIPS TOO EARLY.
Your sexual market place value will SKY-ROCKET as you get into your 30s and 40s. You'll still have broads in their late teens and early 20s who will want you bad.
Focus on getting your MONEY up right now. Get a gym membership and go 3 times a week (Monday - Wednesday - Friday) and get your diet on point. You're wayyy too young to be worried about some broad who works at McDonalds.
Its best to move on. Trust me, I learned the hard way