How can a guy whose overweight and lazy get a perfect girlfriend?

[Anonymous]

I dont understand I see this overweight lazy dude always drunk but he has a perfect girlfriend. I have a six pack make loads of money and have excellent communication skills and this dude gets to have a girlfriend without putting in any effort. Im so lonely this is not fair. Someone please explain how this happens. I think this girl is dumb for choosing him over me. Its an obvious no brainer to choose me im better in every way not trying to brag but its pretty apparent im more successful and experienced in life.

[EricSummer]

If the guy has a drinking problem it is possible that the girlfriend is from a family that struggled with alcoholism. She may be really good at looking after a dependent person as thus is what she got used to. This is only one possible explanation.

Anyway, the choice of partner is not as straightforward as you think. A woman typically does not just want the best guy, but especially one who shows a long-term commitment.

As you tick a lot of boxes of what is commonly seen as attractive, maybe online dating works for you. Best choise a site where profiles are checked individually and where there is a membership fee.

[Shamalien]

People are gunna shit on you right now cause you’re whining.

the truth is that this kind of attitude women despise above all else. Not to say you’re like this all the time, but it may be worth considering a different perspective. Maybe you aren’t “better” than him as much as you think you are. Or maybe he’s just fking lucky and some woman for whatever reason fell in love with his specific combination of traits. Maybe he’s really good to her and she is healthy enough to appreciate that.

In any case, I do sympathize, finding the right girl can be difficult. I think if you follow your true path though one will find you…maybe you’re doing well but there is always higher to go and maybe the universe is doing you a favour by forcing you to reach your potential before you earn your reward

[Asker]

Finally a good answer. But which attitude do women despise the most the whining or thinking im better than someone?

[slatyb]

That's a tough call, but I'm going with arrogance.

[Shamalien]

@slatyb it’s a toss up in my opinion both bad

[slatyb]

Not fair? There's no "fair" because no one is handing out girlfriends. Maybe your problem is that you are arrogant and put yourself above others. That's not attractive.

[Asker]

im not above anyone all lives are equal. Im doing an analysis between me and him.

[slatyb]

And you argued that you were superior. Stop doing that. If you can't attract a partner, take a good long look in the mirror.

[Asker]

I am superior im terms of muscle mass, wealth and health. Anyone who looked at the differences between me and him would come to the same conclusion.

[Asker]

Im not saying im better than him at everything. Just at the things girls look for like muscles, willpower, strength, and money

[Sophie_me_like]

You love a person for who they are, I'd rather be alone than not having this kind of love

[Anonymous]

He probably has a good personality, whereas you probably don't.

[Asker]

Thats pretty rude. Im looking for real answers.

[RoastedToast]

That is a real answer 🤷‍♂️ from an outside perspective you seem too obsessed and think you're better than this dude it's probably what's holding you back

[Dinosaursandanime65]

I guess, love really makes a guy come out of his shell