What should I do about her guy friend?

[Anonymous]

So she has this guy friend that I already don’t like what so ever and recently she told me he calls her fat and all that which is a sensitive subject for her and I told her to get rid of him and she said it’s okay it’s just a joke and I don’t understand why she keeps him around I don't know what to do. I’ve thought of telling her to either cut him off or I’m leaving because she has no respect for herself am I wrong? Any suggestions?

[Anonymous]

It's understandable that you're upset and concerned about your girlfriend's guy friend, especially if he's making hurtful comments about her weight. It's important to communicate your feelings to your girlfriend, but it's also important to approach the situation with empathy and understanding.

Before you give your girlfriend an ultimatum or threaten to leave, try to have an open and honest conversation with her about your concerns. Let her know how his comments make you feel and why you feel it's important for her to stand up for herself and set boundaries with this guy.

It's possible that your girlfriend may not realize how hurtful his comments are, or she may feel conflicted about cutting off a longtime friend. By approaching the situation with empathy and understanding, you may be able to help her see things from your perspective and come up with a solution that works for both of you.

However, if your girlfriend is unwilling to listen to your concerns or take action to address the situation, it may be a sign that she's not respecting your feelings and boundaries. In that case, it's important to consider whether this is a relationship that you want to continue. Remember that you deserve to be with someone who respects and supports you, and who is willing to stand up for themselves and their own well-being.

[Asker]

Thanks for the help!

[Opinion Owner]

You’re welcome