Should I confront her about her new guy friend?

[Anonymous]

My girlfriend Krista has been overweight for the past year now. I’ve been trying to get Krista to go to the gym and she’s been refusing. Tells me she doesn’t have energy and makes up excuses.

Krista tells me I need to come with her to the gym. But I can't go to the gym with her regularly because of my busy work schedule. I work as an oil truck driver 14 hours days. So I’m always away or sleeping.

I asked Krista to go with my buddy Dale who’s a retired fitness coach. Krista says she’s not gonna go with a man. Always one excuse after another.

Today she told me she went on a 2 hour walk with a guy she works with named Cole. And how her and Cole are getting a gym membership together and they’re gonna go every day together.

Does this seem suspicious? Or should I end it?

Yes

No

[ohsheeT]

Control freaks. Of course you should end it

Im sure she would love that im sure she will be happy the name calling and being told what to do every day has taken a toll on her

And now not her boyfriend but just some one that will take the time to help her succeed. Wants to help her and they construct A. Way because she didn't want to go alone

So now the boyfriend gets jealous and wants to dulooper. For her doing what you told her to do

Because you couldn't find time in your busy schedule.\nTo go to the gym

When in the first place, you could have walked around the block for 30 minutes a day with Her for 30 days.
And the difference, from working at at gym. 4 days a week

Versus her boyfriend walking around the block thirty minutes everyday he would have seen more results. Better results healthier results

But i'm sure she's trying to hear your voice telling her what to do.

When you can't even do it.

Well everything happens for a reason.

I hope your next question you have before and after picture.

Title of your question My girlfriend went from this size to this size and dumped me for a skinny guy that was there for her everyday

Is that fair

[Ask105]

Dude screw the poll I would leave her its gonna eat you up thinking all the what ifs she clearly has found a new partner to fill the void when your gone

[Ask105]

But before you do that and go code red please communicate that with her and say it has to end or we may not work out it’s something i can not accept i wouldn’t do that to you etc

[Flower7]

Well I mean, this was your idea for her to start going to the gym. So it would appear odd for you to now have a problem with it.

You would seem looney to complain about her finally going to the gym after all the complaints that you’ve had about it.

It would have made you feel better if you’d suggested a female friend instead of your male friend Dale, but it’s kinda too late now.

[avery58]

Seems a little weird, I don't know

[Anonymous]

And you are probably a fat slob.