What's your attachment style?

[berrytired]

Secure

Preoccupied

Dismissive

Fearful

[SeriouslyFunny00]

I'm kinda the "dismissive" type and doesn't get attached too quickly. I'm still working on it.

[TooHot2Care]

Squidward. 😏

[PhenomenalQueen]

A little of them all, but mostly secure.

[AviatorTom]

I'm SECURE, occasionally DISMISSIVE to certain people in certain situations.

[TooHot2Care]

You’re either a man’s man or a fearful who is lying. You better not be lying or I’ll lose all respect for you and punch you.

Better be on your least fearful behavior cuz now I got my eye on you…. So, can I have my eye back? I’m in a lot of pain after making this choice today.

[OfMiceandMen]

Secure - I am good with who I am and have little to no doubts.

[ARWINGx1]

Dismissive. (Maybe Fearful)
Could've given some examples as to why, but the short version would be that I fell like I'm the Black Sheep of the family, due to having Asperger's since early childhood.

I mean, my parents neglected the care & support that I oh-so needed. And 2 decades later even, only dad started to show me more support. Mom on the other hand... haven't changed a bit.
(He--, all of my cousins got more than me. Even expecting me to do the same. Thus making it look like they indirectly gave me the finger.)

Anyway, As for why Dismissive specifically, you could say that throwing the "relationship rule book" out the window is an understatement, due to being forced to be independent. And alongside my condition, bad combination.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Secure, also the others are not attachment styles, they are forms of attachment phobias.

[berrytired]

Well of course secure is the ideal

[SunnyRS]

It's a habit of mine I try to rely more on myself and don't want to get attached to others.
I know it's not a good habit but I am not able to shake it off.

[WanderingLoveWizard]

Can I be a mix of all 4 depending on the day?

[Agape93]

Mix of secure and dismissive

[FunkyMonkee]

Usually at the wrists and ankles.

[AdithyaR]

Dissmissive and Fearful

[MementoMori777]

Dismissive

[Avicenna]

Secure

[es20490446e]

Secure :P

[LavLavLuv]

Preoccupied 🫠

[Agape93]

Cute

[shades777]

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