What's your attachment style when it comes to relationships?

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Secure

People with this style feel safe and confident in their relationships. They can share feelings with others, seek support, and have good self-esteem.

Avoidant

People with this style prioritize independence over emotional intimacy. They may have difficulty trusting others and building long-term relationships.

Anxious

People with this style crave intimacy and love. They may have a hard time being single, but may experience fear of rejection and jealousy in relationships.

Disorganized

People with this style may have intense fear and difficulty controlling their emotions. They may feel they don't deserve love or closeness in relationships.

I feel I am the anxious type.

exitseven · Accepted Answer

probably avoidance. When I was younger I mostly was alone and did not have to think about anybody else. I had a 4 year relationship with somebody but it was long distance so it was almost like I was alone anyway. After I got married I was not used to have to think about somebody else. It took me a long time to get over this.

NathanDavis · Accepted Answer

from the types and description you shared... I'd go with "secure"

which to be honest, should be THE ONLY way to go about relationships...

the other, do not seem ready at all... for a relationship dynamic

MemeSupreme · Accepted Answer

disorganized but lean more avoidant than anything  aka im a headache to date lol

Abbycado · Accepted Answer

Definitely secure

Love Doctor Brad · Accepted Answer

Ah, relationships! My playground as a relationship coach 😄. My attachment style? I'd say I'm a delicious mix of secure and a sprinkle of anxious. Love is a rollercoaster, and my wife and daughter are my thrill ride partners. It's all about finding that sweet balance, right? Remember, love languages can change over time, so keep exploring yours! If you're anxious, that's okay, it just means you're passionate about connection. 💕

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RageBabe · Answer

Attached; however, you did not include it in your poll.

PeachyPie93 · Answer

I'm the anxious type but I have my emotions under control enough that it doesn't bother the guy I like lol Once I am in an actual serious relationship I become secure..

TsundereMatrix · Answer

Due to my traumatic past with trying to get into relationships, I have been avoidant and that makes things even harder than they are.

Valdemort · Answer

Unfortunately anxious as fuck, which is why I'm not actively looking to date. Poor guy would be traumatised. But I'll make my way through it.

Account · Answer

I am a mess. I lean towards avoidant, but not exactly. I am trying to work on this.

Caroline91 · Answer

Generally, secure. At times when it's not that, we do the work to get it back in balance.

Flower7 · Answer

Avoidant. I usually feel smothered when in a relationship and like I have a loss of freedom.,

red-lipstick-girl · Answer

I am a jealous girl and a little angry. I stay loyal to the man I love. I don't leave him easily, but if he makes big mistakes, I will leave him.

ProbablyClueless · Answer

I'm very proud to say that I've reached the "secure" attachment style.

TheStaleMarshmellow · Answer

How is one supposed to know without that experience

DaBiggestBird · Answer

I like the digital threat and wish it was still here

Anonymous · Answer

I don't think you can ask this and expect to get an honest answer from most people. If most people knew this problem they could fix it.

Yohenis · Answer

I am someone who doesn't care women will come and go

Anonymous · Answer

I don't know, cause I've never been in a relationship.

Nikki1989 · Answer

100% secure.

NicholasRedone · Answer

Secure with the ideal woman ♀️

Phoenix98 · Answer

I guess out of those 4 secure.

Ms_Facesitter · Answer

Secure, seems like the only way that seems right.

WhitneySnow · Answer

Secure

KostasKouvalis · Answer

Anxious

Vickie06 · Answer

Pretty Secure.

Anonymous · Answer

Anxious

Anonymous · Answer

Anxious avoidant.

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