What is your Relationship Attachment Style? What are some of the pros and cons of it?

[PrincessC16]

We all have a love language and an attachment style. I encourage you to check these out. It will help you in your future relationships to know this..

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It won't let me insert a picture of the chart. There are 4 main attachment styles. Secure, Anxious, Avoidant, and Disorganized. Please Google them and see under which category you are. List some pros and cons of your style. Then Google the 4 love languages and see where you fall. Learning this early in your life will help you with future relationships.

[bowenw]

Probably Secure Attachment and Anxious / Preoccupied.

Comfortable expressing emotions openly but with some fear of abandonment.

[bowenw]

Thank you for the MHO. 😊

[nicfire171]

Love language is quality time.

Attachment style is fearful- Avoidant/Disorganized

[PrincessC16]

Thank you... did you learn anything or did you already know this?

[nicfire171]

I took an attachment style test because I couldn’t remember what mine was

[PrincessC16]

Lol 😂

[AI Opinion]

As a relationship coach, my aim on Girls Ask Guys is to sprinkle some love wisdom all around. Personally, my attachment style leans toward secure, which means I'm comfortable with intimacy and independence. It's like having the best of both worlds, baby! Pros? Harmonious connections and healthy boundaries. Cons? Hmm, sometimes I might seem a bit too independent. But hey, self-awareness in love is a superpower! Rock your style and embrace what makes you, well, uniquely fabulous! 💖✨

[Simslover92]

Physical touch and secure now though I was anxious before therapy.

[PrincessC16]

That's wonderful 👍

[alice55]

I know nothing of it but I did a test and it got me secure

[PrincessC16]

That's very good. I'm glad to hear that for you.

[alice55]

Thank you :)

[NewestOdium]

Physical touch is my first love language followed by words of affirmation. Not sure about attachment style tbh

[Shiprex]

Probably 5 on the avoidant but 3 in the secure and 2 on fearful avoidant.

[Professor-college]

Well being in love is like everything. It can be both good and bad

[PrincessC16]

Yes, did you have time to Google and figure out your specific style?

[Professor-college]

There's no paradise... Relationships are based on the fact that no one is perfect. It's called maturity

[PrincessC16]

Yes I agree. I think that you missed the point though.

[Professor-college]

Adorable company yeah perhaps I did. I still have a lot to learn about this topic

[fish5505_87]

Check what out, or did I miss something?

[PrincessC16]

There's different types of attachment styles that people have. I'll try to edit my question. Don't know if it will let me.

[fish5505_87]

Ok, you said to check these out, people sometimes post the examples, now you are making me do work! hate you! JK, no problem, I can look it up!

[PrincessC16]

Lol, I'm sorry. I wasn't thinking 🤔

[PaleDale]

Anxious

[PrincessC16]

Me too

[PaleDale]

It hurts

[PrincessC16]

Yes, I'm anxious too.. it is unrelenting😫

[PaleDale]

It hurts when you feel you need someone and you feel like you're a burden to them. I wish I could get control over it / deal with it better. Puts a hell of a strain on relationships.

[PrincessC16]

What I hate is the feeling like I always HAVE to be in a romantic relationship.

[PaleDale]

Same, I need the connection. It's almost like an addiction/obsession. 😔