"Problem" Girls?

[Anonymous]

I don't really like girls mentally of always being a "problem" for me to solve, could I actually able to find someone suitable for me?

I cannot actually be "myself", I'm more of a strategist person. So, a girl actually needs to be able to see past my strategist-self to know the true me which I don't mind her knowing.

[Anonymous]

Will you open up

[Opinion Owner]

Hey so your post makes no sense.
If you're a strategic kind of guy why is figuring her out harder for you yet you expect her to play through your mind games.
I say you grow up child. If you want something real be a grown man about things...

[Asker]

I have to be myself, or I'll being seen as fake?
And I can't fake it, even if I wanted to.

[Asker]

I am asking whether there are girls suitable for me, they don't need to change for me, be themselves.

[Opinion Owner]

I cannot actually be "myself", I'm more of a strategist person

Those are your words
Do you or do you not want to be taken seriously?
Finding real love takes being vulnerable and taking a risk. But since you can't be yourself you will always be someone whose a strategist and a player

[Asker]

I actually able to open up, only until we committed to each other, and I'll want to have a deep connection with her. But if the "problem" girl still exists, I can't go on with relationship.

[Opinion Owner]

That's fair. Just be open and she will to