Girls, Part 3. Am I the problem?

Anonymous

I moved to the states after graduating, I met a group of friends (4 guys and 2 girls) We’d meet every weekend to play video games and just chill. One of the girls was really fat, and that’s not my taste in women as all the guys in the group knew. About a year after we’d been hanging out the fat girl who I’ll name Emma, got in a argument with one of the guys. She had a history of being severely depressed, as did I. So I went outside to sit on the porch to comfort her, make sure she didn’t do anything stupid. Cuz I’ve been there before. I sat next to her on the stairs and she cried and vented. And I put my arm around her when she started crying and did my best to be nice and comfort her. Months go by after that night and all the sudden, she spreads a rumor saying I made her feel uncomfortable and tried to sleep with her. At this point I’d already had two bad incidents in the past and my trust for people, especially women was hanging by a thread. And this was the final straw, I keep in contact with one of the guys that didn’t believe her bs but left the rest of them. Didn’t feel like getting caught up in drama and lies. As a cherry ontop 4 women I’ve met since I moved here have ghosted me in the middle of a conversation. I haven’t flirted or anything, just getting to know each other and one day or morning, boom. Never hear from them again. They all do the same thing, and I don't know why this keeps happening, why nobody likes a good guy that treats them right, or why nobody starts or carries on a conversation with me. But now I see women in a very bad image and I know I shouldn’t. Which is why I call myself an Incel even tho most of you don’t agree with the name. I’m not after a relationship right now, I’m focused on me. Yet I can’t even become friends with a girl cuz for whatever reason they’re so toxic for no reason whatsoever, makes me wonder am I missing something, or somehow doing something wrong by simply asking them about themselves or telling them about me.

Girls, Part 3. Am I the problem?
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