Is this girl that naive?

[joji7991]

The girl I've been dating isn't on BC. We had unprotected sex and I didn't know she wasn't on the pill at the time. I asked her why she didn't say anything and she said she trusted me. I don't think she has malicious intentions but I don't think she's thinking logically. Thoughts?

[SueShe]

She is not naive nor did anything malicious. It is YOU that are malicious because you are the type of guy that believes it is solely the duty of the woman to birth control. You are of course too good to take something against accident.

Why did YOU not pull out a preservative? Why did YOU not ask her if she was on birth control? Why did YOU not take the necessary precautions?

It is always the same thing with you guys. You think you can just fornicate anyone and that you don't have to worry about anything. If you would have done your share, then nothing of that would have happened. You are just as fault as her and that is why YOU are malicious for not having asked.

[joji7991]

I understand your point of being proactive on my side. but your tone and the fact you're accusing me of being malicious is hilarious. You have no idea what my relationship is with this woman and you're making blind assumptions. Get off your high horse

[Molly1997]

If she is young , yeah , I was like that too. Just blindly trusting 😅

[RespectfulGuy]

At mid-20, no. Neither of you are naive.

I wonder how she expressed her trust to you.

I interpret your details as she trusted you'll look after her and the kid if she got pregnant.

Will you?

If not, please let her know. If she hated the pills, suggest IUDs. As long as you two remain monogamous, bare sex should then be OK.

And you're not that foolish. Fatherhood is not easy if you're not ready.

[Anonymous]

Dude women are stupid when it comes to this s***. Always wrap it. Never trust a woman to be responsible or to make good decisions. How do you think you got laid? 😆😆😆

[In_Trance]

Lol no

[Anonymous]

Be careful