If women did not want to be treated like sex object then why do they dress like sex objects in skimpy over sexualized clothing? Seems like it's a double standard to me... I mean when I see a girl dressed in a conservative manner like summer dress etc... that is very desirable but when I women dresses like a complete slag sure I would not mind having my way with her for one night but would I consider her long term wife material no because when a girl feels like she needs to dress like a sex object that tells me she has confidence issues and is not of good moral or ethical values. When a woman who has boundaries about her body in being conservative in her dress attire that tells me that she does not need to lower her standards to look like a slut and has higher standards than most young uneducated women.
It’s not technically wrong.
In life, when most people were younger, you were told not to judge a book by its cover. However everyone does just that.
It could be for safety. For example no one is going to approach a person talking to themselves as if they have a mental illness.
Other times it can be just to inference what that person is like. If you see someone wearing a suit and carrying a brief case your first thought would be that they work in a prestigious job.You can judge as much as you want but you shouldn’t be rude to them unless they are the instigators.
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It makes me happy when women wear clothing that accentuates their bodies. They are like sunshine on a cloudy day. It doesn't give men license to treat them with disrespect.
Why are some guys such ass holes about it?
I think of beautiful women the same way I think about cute puppies, beautiful art, lovely flowers, spectacular landscapes or bright sunsets. I am grateful for such beauty. I don't have to own it to appreciate it. And I would never defile it.
A guy can marry the kind of woman he wants. He only needs to find one woman that suits his taste. Why is he worried about what all the others do?
It pisses me off when people shame women who are proud of their bodies or who simply dress in a way that makes them comfortable or happy. What gives them the right to dictate what is and what is not tasteful. They remind me of the kind of liberals who are always trying to shove their beliefs down other people's throats.
The word "judge" can vary in degree.
One use is private. We passed a judgement and then keep to ourselves. Nothing wrong.
Another use is public. We passed a judgement and share with everyone except her. This is bad and can get sue if it goes out of hand.
Another use is with the person, privately. I think this is very courageous and kind to let the person know how we feel, objectively without public knowledge.
If the person listens good. If not, no one gets hurt except perhaps your ego.
Hence my answer, yes and no depends on who else knows your judgement.
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It's wrong to judge anyone for how they dress
Dress in the way you want to be presented. How you look whether you like it or not is a visual representation of how you want to be seen and the kind of person you make yourself out to be.
because anyone can wear whatever they want. this is none of your business.
It's not.
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