Why does this woman care that I blocked her?

[Anonymous]

She has been strange to me for a long while. I blocked her on social media. I know her parents but not closely. I blocked her and then I notice she’s just driven past my house. She keeps trying to let me know she thinks she’s superior to me but I blocked her because she’s weird but then she’s driven past my house. She’s never driven past my house before but now she has after I blocked her. Why? Weird as I want nothing to do with her but she keeps doing this nonsense. Why?

[HappyWoman34]

Hmmm I had a guy do this to me. He was stalking me. If it keeps happening, write down dates and times in a notebook that you can take to the police. Maybe she’s just messing with you or just drove by coincidentally if it’s only happened a few times. Does she live in the same suburb? Maybe she doesn’t really care that you blocked her, beyond feeling confused and feeling mildly hurt/offended. If she wasn’t bothering you and you told her out of the blue, through mutual friends that you’re blocking her. I had a guy do that. It was very peculiar, confusing and a bit hurtful. Because I never bothered him. On the other hand, maybe she’s a game player and doesn’t want you, but doesn’t want anyone else to have you? Who knows? Why do you care, since you blocked her?

[Asker]

I care because it is very strange behaviour. Could be coincidental but I mistrust her. She tries to let me know that she thinks she’s superior to me but I don’t even want to talk to her. I am friendly to her parents and her sisters and they are ok but she is the odd one out. Maybe she has mental health issues. I have seen her laugh at her siblings post on the internet so either it’s an inside joke or she’s got some kind of issue

[HappyWoman34]

Could be a narcissist?

[Asker]

I was thinking so. They seek attention and they’ve behaved poorly in my opinion to their siblings. Also they seem too overconfident and they joke about gaslighting people. Plus why would they care if I blocked them? Most people if they get blocked think “pfft you loser” eventually and don’t drive past peoples homes. Also - they have been sensitive to criticism and said “don’t come at me in the comments”. Seems like possible narcissism

[Asker]

Most people as you know have no need to let others know they think they’re better than someone else

[HappyWoman34]

Yeah, because they are more grounded than that.