How do I blame a girl for rejecting me?

[Anonymous]

[Cynicaldreamer]

You don't? Are you asking why is it her fault she didn't want to date you...

Because you can't. The fact of the matter is, she wasn't attracted enough to you to want to date you... and that's okay. Take it as a blessing that she didn't mislead or waste your time playing games with you and was honest enough to tell you how she felt.

Trust me, there will come a time in your life a girl will approach you, and you'll think, "Eww, she's not my type..." and you'll probably reject her. Do you want her getting bitter at you about it? Probably not.

Move on with your life and find a girl that does want you.

[JustMeL120]

Don't listen to other people bullshit. She rejected you because she think she is too good for you. It's wrong. Noone is too good or to attractive for anyone. Consider that you dodged a bullet.

[stepyo99]

Seems like a toxic mindset. Nobody is to blame, just move on to the next girl. Rinse and repeat until a girl doesn't reject you.

I would rid yourself of that mindset, though, it's not healthy. Spend more time exercising, going outside, and developing hobbies and it will help you get a better grip on things.

[Billlewis]

You shouldn't blame her for rejecting you, in my opinion, but instead support her in her desire to find a more suitable guy to engage in sex with. Believe it or not, some of the women who have initially rejected me later allowed me to serve them in other, non sexual ways.

[inhua]

not every scenario needs to have someone to blame whether it's you or whoever rejected you. some things aren't meant to be and some things are outside of your control

[inhua]

also those users who are trying to insinuate that you should blame yourself should go kick rocks

[SnowedIn]

Don't.

You own part of it.

If you were all that, she wouldn't have rejected you.

[Jazzy54]

You don’t. You just move on with your life. That’s it. It happens. 🤷🏽‍♀️

[runnerboy]

Life is short... be kind forget blaming her and move on

[qwert1234]

How?

You look in the mirror and you blame that reflection of a little 19yo girl there.

[Bricealan]

You sound like a 19 year old.

[serafin]

say it to her face

[Notyouraveragecat]

U don't.

[chicken_nugget24]

You can't sorry

[Rockstarrrrr]

Lol what

[In_Trance]

you don't

[brandon1122]

Blame? 🤣