Should I change myself for women?

[Anonymous]

I have never been changed for women. For example, I am a little hard guy, like a father figure, don't like soft things. Never change my way of talking or clothes or lifestyle for women. Maybe that's why I always lost when it comes to women. I don't kiss ass of women or bosses in the business world.

[Anonymous]

You’ve got to have a bit of softness dealing with a woman. We can appreciate a protector and leader, but not a father when we already have our own. You don’t have to kiss ass and break your back, a woman who wants a weak submissive man should seek exactly that. There has to be a bit of give though. My fiancé acts like I’m a VIP whenever we’re out lol he’s very aware of our surroundings, always watching out and keeping me safe, that matters a lot. But if he were a jerk to me or treated me how he’s treat a friend it would be over.

[Asker]

I don't act like a dad to women. I even try to become romantic and send flowers and heart emojis.

[Opinion Owner]

I only mentioned that because you said you’re like a father figure. If that’s not not the case or you misspoke that’s fine as well! I think it’s great that you give romantic gestures, you just have to find your own balance between what makes you comfortable and what a woman likes.

[Anonymous]

Yes and no. If you're an a**hole then yeah, you gotta change if you want your prospects to. But I don't think ANYONE should change who they are at thier core. First off you can potential forget who you are. You'll lose your center and then you'll be no good to anybody, even yourself. But worse than that nobody cab really change who they are at thier core.