Why I'm so invisble to women and how to change it?

[RARETRAMP]

[OneViewpoint]

Go find a mirror. Not a physical mirror. Introspective thought. Ask yourself why women may not flock to you like they do to some other guys. Looks, personality, fitness, IQ, etc. Be honest with yourself.

OK, so assuming you identify some areas where you didn't win the genetic lottery or your background hasn't done you any favors.

What can you work on?

Looks: Fitness - lose some weight, pack on some muscle. Clothing - learn to dress well. Grooming - new haircut, fingernails, facial hair grow it, lose it, just keep it clean and neat.

Personality: Shy? Push your limits. Lose your fear of failure. Failure is a great teacher. It's how you learn. Just walk up to people and say hi. Go out there and fail 1,000 times. Evaluate every failure. Try again. It's not about "getting the girl" every time. It's about getting comfortable with yourself and just having a good time even if she says "no thanks". But... never overstay your welcome. Get in. Make an impression. Make a graceful exit BEFORE an uncomfortable silence sets in because you can't think of anything to say. Less is more. Leave some questions unanswered. Leave her wanting more instead of leaving her wishing you'd leave, LOL. Get some confidence and everything changes.

Not interesting: Do something with your life. A career. A sport or sports, skiing, surfing, tennis, mountain biking, mountain climbing. A hobby like photography. Or killer move... take dance lessons. 95% of women LOVE to dance. And 95% of guys suck at it. Be one of the few guys who can really dance. Great way to meet women and great way to set yourself apart. Even if you hate dancing.

Or it on the sidelines and wonder why women don't just magically find you attractive.

[OlderAndWiser]

You haven't told us anything about yourself but. . . your profile picture is a way-too-fucking-cutesy picture of two cats i front of the Eiffel Tower. That portrays a childish or even effeminate image and that does NOT appeal to women.

Do you know what women want in a partner?

[L_Lawliet17]

Says the man with a cat pfp

[OlderAndWiser]

@L_Lawliet17 Those who know me do not question my masculinity. And I never asked others 'why am I invisible to women,' because I am not. It is the ONLY bit of information we have about this guy when he should have told us much more if he wanted a meaningful answer.

And I didn't ask your opinion about my profile pic. Your profile pic is a cartoon character; does that mean that you are childish? I would not make that assumption without knowing more about you.

[DishLady]

@OlderAndWiser Don't feed the trolls...

[DishLady]

Because you WANT to be invisible. If you DIDN'T want to be that way, you'd take the initiative and change.

[L_Lawliet17]

I'm not really sure how to fix it, but you deserve love. The right person will notice you. 🥺

[AI Opinion]

As your go-to relationship coach, let's sprinkle some charm on this situation! If you're feeling like a ghost to women, it might be time to turn up that flirty charisma. Confidence is incredibly attractive, so strut your stuff like you own the room. Approach interactions with genuine interest and a splash of humor. It's all about being unapologetically yourself and showing off that personality. Maybe try swapping solo time for small social gatherings to polish those social skills. When you're comfortable in your own skin, others will take notice. Keep shining, and watch that invisibility fade away! 😉👀✨